- 8 years ago
- Wedding: September 2010
I am venting.
Straight up venting.
My invites are out. A bunch of people have said “yes” or “no”. Now, all the “maybes” are out there, and a lot of them are my close friends. I understand you need some time to make travel arrangements. That’s fine. What I can’t deal with is the constantly changing stories. One day, my friend calls me and says she doesn’t think she can come. The next day, she’s looking in to driving vs. flying, the next day she’s not coming again…the day after that she’s coming and carpooling with someone else. I HEAR ABOUT ALL OF THIS.
Why can’t people just decide to come or not and send me their final answer? It’s REALLY stressful for me to hear about people who say yes–then no–then yes again. It’s like an emotional mind f#$%. I don’t want to be mindfuc#$. I just want people to decide if they are coming and send me the RSVP back. Is that too much to ask?