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Are you getting your hair professionally done for the rehearsal dinner?

posted 2 years ago in Beauty
  • poll: Pro hair for rehearsal dinner?
    Yes : (4 votes)
    9 %
    No, but I thought about it : (7 votes)
    16 %
    Didn't even consider it : (34 votes)
    76 %
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    GirlWithARing    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC, marrying in Philadelphia

    We're having a typical RD at an Italian restaurant. I wasn't going to get my hair done, but my mom is really upset about it. I am not one of those girls that's amazingly good with my hair...it's naturally straight, and I usually don't style it much. I didn't think pro hair for the RD was something many brides do...am I wrong and is it actually common? Are you going to get your hair/makeup professionally done?

     

     
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    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    I hadn't even considered getting my hair done for the rehearsal dinner.

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    Nope, not for the rehearsal dinner.  If I have time, I might con my one talented BM into doing my hair... but if we don't have time, it's not a big deal to me.  I will definitely do my own makeup though.

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    Nope! I can't afford that haha. But even so, I don't see why it would be necessary. I'll probably put more effort into it, probably wearing it down instead of a pony tail :)

     
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    Minutiae    May 2011  

    The last time I had my hair professionally done was...oh, wait. Never. Ha. I'm going to take a guess and say that I won't be going to the pros for the rehearsal dinner. :P

     
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    roxy821    August 21, 2010  

    No, I'm not. I could because my MOH is my hairdresser but I never even thought about it. I think it's just a rehersal dinner and isn't worth the money or hassle.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I wish I could but I'm not.  Not only are my funds going to be TAPPED.  I literally won't have the time to get it done that day.

     
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    snmcdowell    9-13-08   Chicago

    I did! I wanted a chignon which I am terrible at doing. I had it done at a salon next door to our church so I could just run over afterward.

     
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    Amani    March 27, 2010  

    Me either.  I hadn't even considered it, actually.

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    No, not for the rehearsal dinner.

     
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    farmersdaughter    June 26, 2010  

    I just can't justify the expense - I'm doing my hair myself for the RD. Besides...my wedding is the next day, and I don't want to go in to get my hair done on my actual wedding day and have a ton of product still in it from the night before. You're not supposed to go in with clean hair, but I also don't want to go in with excessive gunk in it!

     
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    katiebug    July 31, 2010  

    I'm scheduling my regular hair appointment for the day of the rehearsal dinner.  Here's my reasoning: (1) I spend money to get my hair done every 6 weeks anyway, (2) I want my hair to look good for the honeymoon.  It won't be special, but my hair looks way better when my hairdresser blows it out because I have not talent for doing my hair other than putting it in a ponytail.

     
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    Miss Bella    October 15, 2011   Blue Bell, PA

    I would generally say no, but I am lucky enough to have two best friends who do hair and make up.  So for me I wont be going to a salon, but I am sure the girls wont mind coming to my house to make me look awesome! 

     

    My advise for other brides who do not want to spend the money on getting your hair done for the rehearsal dinner...play with come curlers and different styles..see what you can come up on your own.  Even if you are not good with doing your hair, I am sure you can do something on your own to make it look good! :)

     
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    GirlWithARing    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC, marrying in Philadelphia

    My main concern isn't money, but time and stress -- because that weekend is going to be so hectic anyway, and I have guests coming from OOT that I want to spend time with. My mom just made it sound like not having pro hair would be a huge taboo, and I'm not the best at doing my own, so it's really helpful to hear about what everyone else is doing. 

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    @Girlwitharing - Why don't you just go and get a "blow out" at the salon? That wouldn't take much time, would make your hair look nice, and appease your mom!

     
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    krissybee    October 15, 2011   :: chicago IL ::

    i did consider it.. but not sure i will or not. Depends on if i can squeeze it in the budget... also, i may just want to keep things fairly easy breezy that day before the wedding... i'll get my salon fix the day of the wedding maybe. we'll see!

     
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    Johnitta    May 15, 2010   Tallahassee/Panama City, Fla

    My stylist is more than just a stylist, she's my friend. She will definitely be at the rehearsal dinner, and might possibily curl my hair for the dinner. However, if it wasn't for our relationship, I would never think about having someone professionally style my hair for both the rehearsal dinner and the wedding.

     
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    I second what ottawa bride said... a style should take like 15 mins and be little stress, plus its cheaper!

     
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    Rosie Girl    September 18, 2010   Montana

    Didn't even cross my mind

     
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    Meganm84    July 3, 2010   Phoenix, AZ/SLO, CA

    I am getting a blowout, but mostly to prep my curly, frizz-prone hair for the next day's updo. I could so it myself, but I feel like it would get pushed to the sidelines during the hectiness if I didn't make an actual appointment. 

     
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    Tonya2010    September 11, 2010  

    No, I hadn't even thought about it. Our RD is going to be at my FI parents, so it will be very informal.

     

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