Post # 1
Just like the title says. Are you happy now that your finally married to your SO? Has it solved any problems that you had prior to being just boyfriend/girlfriend?
If you could go back to just being engaged or boyfriend/girlfriend would you?
I’ve been married for two months and three days and I’m still getting used to it. We haven’t changed as a couple, but I’m just getting used to being a Mrs. now and getting used to writing my new last name or having my DH introduce me as his wife or even have his ML introduce me as her DL. It’s weird lemme tell you!
Post # 2
I’ll be honest here – nothing changed for us other than my name. We already lived together, had joint finances, and had life goals. We had alredy ironed out all of our issues. I was happy then, and I am happy now.
This isn’t to say I don’t love being married, just that in my head, nothing really changed for us. I wouldn’t go back because the legal significance is important to me.
Post # 3
Nothing changed for us. Our relationship was already awesome (which I think is essential, pre-marriage), we already had lived together for years, had a daughter, careers, a house.
My name changed, and we were a little more broke, but otherwise, life returned to its same normalcy the next day!
Post # 4
abbie017: +1, We already had a house together, joint accounts, etc., so it’s just made things easier for us (i.e. taxes, health insurance, etc).
Post # 5
Nothing changed. We had already lived together since buying our house a couple years ago, so we didn’t expect anything to change.
Post # 6
Dude fix the question on the poll to match the thread title. Otherwise you’re asking “are you happy?” someone votes yes, then they realize they just voted “yes, I regret it”.
Post # 7
Nothing changed for us. I didn’t even change my name. We lived together before marriage – had for many years – so no aspect of our relationship changed post-marriage. I’m glad we did it – it was nice to bring our two families together, but *we* were already family. The wedding/marriage certificate didn’t change that.
Post # 8
BluebonnetBride: Totally agree. I almost voted wrong thinking the question was “Are you happy?” not “Do you regret it?”.
Post # 9
BluebonnetBride: +1 The poll is initially confusing.
Nothing changed for us other than my last name. We are buying a home soon, but we did live together for 5 years before marriage. We have combined some of our finances, but not all of them. Oh and we officially designated each other as benificiaries on everything (before it was just on a few things).
Post # 10
My FI and I lived 2 hours apart while we were both in school. I graduated in December and moved in with him after our wedding in January. A lot is different for us. Different name/titles, I am living in a different city, we now have joint accounts, and we are living together. It has been amazing to transition into a married couple. We are traditional and I am glad we waited to live together until we were married. It has been very fun and exciting. I don’t feel like I have really learned anything new about him as we have been together for 7 years.
Post # 11
I wasn’t unhappy before. We didn’t have any issues that needed to be solved. And certainly didn’t think marriage was the answer to relationship issues.
No regrets on gettinv married.
Post # 12
BluebonnetBride: First off I’m not a DUDE!
Second I meant it as in do you regret it YES you do… NO you don’t or I wouldn’t change it for the world. I dont know whats confusing about it, but for those who think it’s confusing I’m sorry. I’d love to change it, but I don’t know where they option is to edit it.
Post # 13
oxstardust421xo: It’s confusing because “Are you happy now that you’re married?” is above the poll in huge letters, which sort of makes you expect that’s going to be the poll question.
Post # 14
oxstardust421xo: OMG I am SO sorry to offend you. I MUST have thought you were a gentleman with my rude use of “dude” but CLEARLY you are not.
And yes it’s confusing because your thread title asks the opposite question. Yes, it’s possible to figure it out but just a heads up the next time you make a poll.
Post # 15
Not much changed, but we couldn’t be happier. Honestly, we didn’t have many issues that needed to be fixed, even before we were engaged. We have been together for 5.5 years and the only thing that has changed is that we have gotten closer and more like a family after being together so long, getting engaged, and now being married. We have been through a huge transition year- I finished my PhD, we moved across the country for a job, he was unemployed for two months, then I quit my job and was unemployed for a while- and are still super happy and love being married. I would never think that getting married (or having a baby) would help fix any underlying problems….