(Closed) Are you having a bachelorette party?

posted 7 years ago in Emotional
Post # 3
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Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2011

Could you plan something low-key so you can spend some time with all of them? What about a nice dinner the day before your rehearsal if they’ll all be in town? I think with the group you have it would be hard to plan an actual bachelorette party….obviously because one of them is not even 21.

What about other friends? I have lots of friends coming to mine that are not my bridesmaids…could you do a night out with them?

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

I wont be having one most likely. I have bridesmen and my mom isn’t planning a shower or anything for me so it seems like we are in the same boat. I second the suggestion that you go and just hang out with them doing something low key.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am not having one.

Post # 6
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Buzzing Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

I am not having one.

Post # 8
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

I had mine last weekend.  My MOH planned it and we invited just friends of mine who aren’t in the wedding.  Most are the wives of my FI’s guy friends or co-workers.  We went to a casino and had fun and drinks in the room and went to the night club at night.  It was fun and I felt really special that they came out for me even tho we arent close.  Its weird cuz I actually feel closer to them now!

Post # 9
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Sugar Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

@brideatbeach: I think you may regret not having one. I had mine 5 weeks ago and had the most great time with my friends. There’s that pressure that it’s got to be great and I was very pleased that it was.

Post # 11
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

I had two actually, because half of my BMs were under 21, so we had one “dinner/drinks/party” bach party, and then we had one at Six Flags! 

You definitely don’t have to do the typical “girly” bach party…there are tons of ideas aside from a club night type thing.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If my MOH didn’t plan it I would have planned it for myself!  Or just did an inpromtu lets go out tonight and celebrate kinda thing.

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

If you want to do something low-key, why not just order pizza and watch movies a few nights before the wedding? It doesn’t have to be a big shebang, just a nice get-together.

Post # 15
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: July 2011

@brideatbeach: Not weird at all. Can you talk to your MOH about this? If you’re not so close with your bridesmaids, it might be good to take some time to get to know them a bit better.

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