Post # 1
The Facebook Profile picture debate… Are you in his profile picture, do you care if you are or not?
I’ve heard people who its very important to them and others who don’t care either way.
-Am I crazy for being upset about this?…
I havent been in my husbands profile picture in YEARS and it makes me sad cus its kind of like a “whats important to you”. I don’t need to be in every single one but years go by and even for our wedding? He just had a picture of an eagle up for a while. I asked him why he didn’t even change it for the wedding and he’s like “i don’t like to put up people pictures anymore for security reasons…” um okay whatever atleast thats a reason.
Then a friend of his from the fire department he was on before we moved just died of cancer (this guys wife was extremely rude to me and told me off to my dh – so i wasnt a huge fan of them) But nonetheless it was a friend of his and i don’t wish death on people. But for this he changes his profile picture to a picture of them in front of the fire truck. But for me nothing. I bought a house with him, married him, and through all that – nothing but this he’ll make an exception for? Am i crazy for being upset?
Post # 3
I’m not in his profile picture but I’m on the cover photo. Same with my page – I’m alone in the profile pic but he’s in the cover photo.
Post # 4
He doesn’t have a fb but my profile picture is him and I together.
Post # 5
I wouldn’t measure his love for you on his facebook picture. Sure it’s cute when it’s a picture of the two of you, but I never once looked at someones facebook and was like “Oh…he has a photo of his dog…he doesn’t really love her.” Ya know?
Have you just asked him to? not asked him why he hasn’t, But just asked him to put up a photo of the two of you because it would make you feel good.
My FI changes it often, sometimes it’s his truck (lol, dumb), sometimes it’s something else of his he likes, sometimes it’s the two of us, etc.
Bottom line, I don’t think this is something worth getting upset over. Just talk about it.
Post # 6
he’s not in mine, and i’m not in his. we don’t really think much of it. people know we’re together, regardless.
Post # 7
Yes, I think you’re being a little sensitive.
As long as his relationship status says ‘married’ and he includes pictures of you in his other facebook pictures (not necessarily his profile picture) I think you really don’t have anything to be upset about. A profile picture is suppose to be a picture of him!
You married him, bought a house with him, are his wife, and are in a very loving & happy relationship with him – you don’t need to be in his profile picture too!
Post # 8
I couldn’t find a poll option that quite fit. Sometimes I’m in his picture, sometimes I’m not, sometimes it’s a picture of the cat. It really makes no difference to me.
That being said, I don’t want to disregard the hurt feelings you’re expressing. Have you told him how you feel, plainly? If you haven’t, he’s probably just totally oblivious to the fact that you apply a deeper meaning to his profile picture.
Post # 9
Uhm, I don’t know if I am or not. I think that answers your question lol.
@Kate0558: I think you should let this one go.
Post # 10
- Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas
He switches his up a lot. I’d say they include me about 50% of the time. I like it when I’m in the picture, but it doesn’t hurt my feelings if I’m not. Right now he is using wedding photos. If I were you I would probably be a bit hurt, but what can ya do?
Post # 11
His current fb pic is Ronald Reagan riding a velociraptor. I really don’t care if I’m part of his profile pic as I am not “Mr. LGenz”
Post # 12
I’m in his since we got married less than two weeks ago, and he is in mine although he isn’t usually in mine. I am also in his cover photo right now.
Doesn’t bother me either way.
Post # 13
He just changed his profile to a pix of us…but the last pix was him and his friends on a camping trip. I would say as hard as it is, try not to read too much into it. I don’t think he’s doing it to upset you.
Post # 14
I’m in his profile picture – and I usually have been. It’s not a requirement, but it makes me happy 🙂
Post # 15
Ever since we started seriously dating he’s put the both of us as his FB profile picture – I thought it was really sweet of him. I took a great shot of him alone in the ocean a few months ago and he changed it to just him and I didn’t care. Since being engaged he changed it back to the picture of us.
I guess I don’t care but it’s super sweet that he likes to have both of us on his profile 🙂
Post # 16
My FI doesn’t have a FB account. He isn’t in my picture though, haha! He is in some of the past photos I’ve had as my profile picture, just not lately. I wouldn’t be upset about it if I were you. The photos he posts are not a measure of his love.