Are you in his facebook profile picture – Do you care?

posted 3 years ago in The Lounge
  • poll: Did you make his facebook profile picture? Do you care?
    It's usually a picture of us... makes me happy : (110 votes)
    22 %
    Its a picture of us but i don't care either way : (112 votes)
    22 %
    He hasn't had a picture of us up in a long time... makes me a little sad : (23 votes)
    5 %
    He hasn't had a picture of us up and i don't care one little bit. : (181 votes)
    36 %
    He doesn't use facebook but i'd expect it to include me : (13 votes)
    3 %
    He doesn't use facebook but i wouldn't care. : (60 votes)
    12 %
  • Post # 3
    Member
    1872 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: April 2013

    I’m not in his profile picture but I’m on the cover photo. Same with my page – I’m alone in the profile pic but he’s in the cover photo.

    Post # 4
    Member
    502 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2014

    He doesn’t have a fb but my profile picture is him and I together.

    Post # 5
    Member
    2189 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: August 2017

    I wouldn’t measure his love for you on his facebook picture. Sure it’s cute when it’s  a picture of the two of you, but I never once looked at someones facebook and was like “Oh…he has a photo of his dog…he doesn’t really love her.” Ya know?

    Have you just asked him to? not asked him why he hasn’t, But just asked him to put up a photo of the two of you because it would make you feel good.

    My FI changes it often, sometimes it’s his truck (lol, dumb), sometimes it’s something else of his he likes, sometimes it’s the two of us, etc.

    Bottom line, I don’t think this is something worth getting upset over. Just talk about it.

    Post # 6
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    462 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    he’s not in mine, and i’m not in his. we don’t really think much of it. people know we’re together, regardless.

    Post # 7
    Member
    1952 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    Yes, I think you’re being a little sensitive.

    As long as his relationship status says ‘married’ and he includes pictures of you in his other facebook pictures (not necessarily his profile picture) I think you really don’t have anything to be upset about. A profile picture is suppose to be a picture of him!

    You married him, bought a house with him, are his wife, and are in a very loving & happy relationship with him – you don’t need to be in his profile picture too! 

    Post # 8
    Member
    1067 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    I couldn’t find a poll option that quite fit.  Sometimes I’m in his picture, sometimes I’m not, sometimes it’s a picture of the cat.  It really makes no difference to me.

    That being said, I don’t want to disregard the hurt feelings you’re expressing.  Have you told him how you feel, plainly?  If you haven’t, he’s probably just totally oblivious to the fact that you apply a deeper meaning to his profile picture.

    Post # 9
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    2973 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Uhm, I don’t know if I am or not. I think that answers your question lol. 

    @Kate0558:  I think you should let this one go. 

    Post # 10
    Member
    2913 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: August 2013 - Wynn Las Vegas

    He switches his up a lot. I’d say they include me about 50% of the time. I like it when I’m in the picture, but it doesn’t hurt my feelings if I’m not. Right now he is using wedding photos. If I were you I would probably be a bit hurt, but what can ya do?

    Post # 11
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    5689 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2011

    His current fb pic is Ronald Reagan riding a velociraptor. I really don’t care if I’m part of his profile pic as I am not “Mr. LGenz”

    Post # 12
    Member
    789 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: August 2013

    I’m in his since we got married less than two weeks ago, and he is in mine although he isn’t usually in mine. I am also in his cover photo right now.

    Doesn’t bother me either way.

    Post # 13
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    1721 posts
    Bumble bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    He just changed his profile to a pix of us…but the last pix was him and his friends on a camping trip.  I would say as hard as it is, try not to read too much into it.  I don’t think he’s doing it to upset you.

    Post # 14
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    2319 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    I’m in his profile picture – and I usually have been. It’s not a requirement, but it makes me happy 🙂

    Post # 15
    Member
    650 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: May 2014

    Ever since we started seriously dating he’s put the both of us as his FB profile picture – I thought it was really sweet of him.   I took a great shot of him alone in the ocean a few months ago and he changed it to just him and I didn’t care.   Since being engaged he changed it back to the picture of us.

    I guess I don’t care but it’s super sweet that he likes to have both of us on his profile 🙂

    Post # 16
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    4513 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2013

    My FI doesn’t have a FB account. He isn’t in my picture though, haha! He is in some of the past photos I’ve had as my profile picture, just not lately. I wouldn’t be upset about it if I were you. The photos he posts are not a measure of his love. 

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