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Well This Is Unfortunate...

Are you receiving PMs from vendors?

posted 2 years ago in Weddingbee
  • poll: Are you receiving PMs from vendors?
    Yes : (38 votes)
    30 %
    No : (88 votes)
    70 %
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    1.
    Hostess
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    MightySapphire      

    Hi Ladies!  I'm wondering if any of you have received PMs from vendors on Weddingbee?  We work very hard to keep the boards spam free, but due to privacy restrictions, we have no idea if any of you are receiving unsolicited PM spam.  So I have a poll for you.  Are any of you receiving unsolicited spam from vendors via WB PMs?

     
    2.
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    Bumble
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    cardigan    January 7, 2011   Austin, TX

    I have in the past, but it's very, very rare!

     
    3.
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    Bumble bee
    AzinAugust    August 2010   Sedona, AZ

    Never happened to me. :o)

     
    4.
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    Bumble bee
    Toffee    January 15, 2011   Hayden, Id

    I haven't since I joined, but I did get an unrelated phone call today for registering with Alfred Angelo for something...it was odd, but it reminded me that I need to start getting serious with my shopping.

     
    5.
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    Bee Keeper
    lilyfaith    June 23, 2012   Lakeview, Chicago

    I have only once, and just didn't respond. I haven't been bothered since. 

     
    6.
    Member
    578 posts
    Busy bee
    mizrunzou    June 26, 2010   Kansas City, MO

    I actually did last week.

     
    7.
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    Busy bee
    ClairDarling    August 14, 2010   San Diego

    i havent, and am glad i dont! how annoying!

     
    8.
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    Bumble
    Beekeeper
    noritake22    March 31, 2011   Seattle

    I have once, but that was a while ago.

     
    9.
    Member
    684 posts
    Busy bee
    Soon2BeMrsC    March 20, 2010   Wine Country

    I did, but I think only twice in the 1.5 years I have been on WB.  Both were PMs based on posts I wrote.  It wasn't a huge deal.

     
    10.
    Hostess
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    Sugar
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    crebre80    November 20, 2010   Baton Rouge, LA

    in the past a few times, definitely nothing recent.

     
    11.
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    Busy bee
    sarahsd    August 14, 2010   San Diego

    I think I got one, but it was really well disguised like she was just letting me know about her friend...it was weird.

     
    12.
    Hostess
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    Honey bee
    yrret107    November 28, 2009   Seattle, WA; Married in West Chester, PA

    Well, I think I got one because I was trying to figure out if I needed a DOC and was talking about how I don't know if I can afford one because of my budget. 

    She told me that she is a doc and was willing to see what she could do for me.

    That was the only time.  It didn't bother me.

    I would have been annoyed if it was spam but it wasn't.

     
    13.
    Member
    340 posts
    Helper bee
    ejoyb    October 10, 2010  

    Yes but it was no big deal. She was giving advice about I question I posted and only the last line mentioned her services. 

     
    14.
    Hostess
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    Sugar bee
    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    I've only received one, and it was like 4 months ago.  Someone sent me a link to some website that sells knockoff shoes.  I deleted it.

     
    15.
    Hostess
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    Buzzing
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    daydreamwanderer       DC

    once or twice, usually in correlation to a post I had put up recently (i.e. "which photographer should I pick?" and then a random photog PM'd me.)

     
    16.
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    Helper bee
    DVsMom      

    Last week I got two from the same person, one was blank though. It didn't make sense really either.

     
    17.
    Bee
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    Bee Keeper
    elephant    April 2011  

    I did once back when I first created my account.

     
    18.
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    Bumble bee
    Miss Pinot Grigio    March 21, 2009   Indianapolis, IN

    I've never received a PM from a vendor.

     
    19.
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    Honey
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    None, thankfully! Probably b/c they realize I'm married and have no reason to give them my business? =]

     
    20.
    Member
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    Bumble bee
    Champagne Wishes    May 22, 2010   Upstate New York

    I have received several since I posted for wanted wedding decor.  It's annoying.

     
    21.
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    CorgiTales    February 1, 2011  

    I think maybe once in the past i received a totally unsolicited pm? i also saw someone who was clearly a vendor mention some info to someone else and asked her to pm me... and she then offered her services. i didn't mind at all because it was relevant to what i had asked her it wasn't just a mass spammy thing.

     
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    Busy
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    Yes, I get about one every other week. I just delete/ignore.

     
    23.
    Member
    340 posts
    Helper bee
    ejoyb    October 10, 2010  

    Just got another one, this time promoting their etsy store. No posts on the board though.

     
    24.
    Member
    236 posts
    Helper bee
    Teaserama    March 18, 2010   Dunedin, Fl

    Haven't recieved any!

     
    25.
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I have!  Super annoying.  I've been contacted by officiants or 'ceremony planners' and by calligraphers and most recently a make-up artist.  I never respond. 

     
    26.
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    4,138 posts
    Honey bee
    hotchildinthecity    June 12, 2010   New York, NY

    Nope!  I've never received anything.

     
    27.
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    prettyflowers    September 2010  

    yes, a handful of times after I posted about finding a photographer in my price range

     
    28.
    Hostess
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    I have in the past.  I just report them to the "Support" section, and a hostess or Mr. Bee always takes care of them for me.  :)

     
    29.
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    KLP2010    October 30, 2010  

    I haven't, but I also haven't ever put a posted that I was looking for a vendor.

     
    30.
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    Dancy905    February 5, 2010  

    I have - mostly photographers. I guess that would make sense because I posted a lot about looking for one. But I will admit the whole - I'll shoot your wedding for free, I'll travel anywhere you just have to pay for the travel expenses - is super shady to me. I usually just ignore them. They are annoying though. 

     
    31.
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    I've received them occasionally but it's not that often and I just ignore them

     
    32.
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    moneypenny02    August 8, 2010   Los Angeles

    I've gotten a few in the past, but they were always related to posts that I had written--again mostly about photographer frustrations.  It didn't bother me & I actually found it very helpful at the time because I was really stressed out and it was nice to get the info from other people without having to continually scour websites.  

    I don't think I've ever gotten anything totally out of the blue.  

     
    33.
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Luckily I don't think I ever have.

     
    34.
    Bee
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    Sugar bee
    sloth    May 14, 2011   Philadelphia, PA

    I got one, but just ignored it and nothing has happened since.

     
    35.
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    hamster    May 30, 2010  

    I got only 3 over the course of a year, and none recently.

     
    36.
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    iswimibikeirun    May 15, 2010   Houston

    No, all PMs have been directly in response to things I've posted or responded to in the Classifieds.

     
    37.
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    Bumble bee
    otb    December 31, 2009   Chicago, IL

    I did once, it was weird too, I had responded to someone else's post about making their own veil.  The sender offered to make my veil for me, but I had already made my own veil and had stated that in my post, lol.  This was a few months ago and I never responded.  Haven't had anything since.

     
    38.
    Hostess
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    Bee Keeper
    trugem    January 2011  

    Yes, I think I have been contacted by a vendor. They sent me a PM stating that they noticed that I brought a certain dress and was wondering if I would be willing to sell it after my wedding. I didn't realize they were a vendor until I looked at their profile and noticed that they had a lot of listings under classifieds (one of them was the same dress they were asking me about selling).

     
    39.
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    GirlWithARing    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC, marrying in Philadelphia

    Whenever I post a photography question, I get a couple PMs from photographers. ("I have a solution to your photog issue - hire me!")

     
    40.
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    Bee Keeper
    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    I have in the past but not recently!

     

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