Post # 1
I’m a regular-ish poster, but didn’t want to post under my regular user name…
Are you vocal while you and SO are intimate? I know movies always depict people having loud orgasms and stuff, but I’m generally a quiet person by nature and it’s the same while in bed. SO knows how to make me O, but I’m never yelling anything, nor have the urge to. I get breath-y maybe so I’m not like totally silent (I think, idk), but SO has mentioned it one or two times that I’m quiet (but so is he). We’re both the only people we’ve ever been with, and I don’t really have friends I would be comfortable asking, so I’m not really sure what is the “norm.” Being loud just seems like it would be awkward to me…
Considering this is a kind of personal post, I’ve made a poll with as many things as I could think of so you don’t have to actually post. Answer according to what’s most average for you.
Post # 3
It depends. Sometimes I do, sometimes I don’t. lol.
Post # 4
I am loud!
I always had trouble keeping it down when I lived with roommates and so now that we have our own place I just let it all out so to speak LOL!
But I am a loud person socially also – I have always been told I don’t have an inside voice! LOL
Post # 5
Haha, I LOL’d at “Yes, Because it’s what I think I’m supposed to do.”
Post # 6
You wanna know something funny – – I am actually thinking about this answer….Truth be told it totally depends whats happening where we are and how much we’re both into it. Sometimes we’re both exhausted but need some action and in that case we’re a bit quieter. Sometimes we’ve had hard work days and need to get out our aggression….OMG I think I am getting a little bit carried away with Too Much Information….We have a townhouse – for the most part we’re cautious of our noise levels, HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHHAHAHAHAHHHA
Post # 7
Hey, ya gotta let the boy know when he’s doing it right!
Post # 8
I’m really loud and outgoing in everyday life but in the bedroom I stick mostly to moans and such, haha.
If I’m being vocal it is a pretty good sign that I’m faking it that night :p
Post # 9
it depends on the situation, but in our own home, yes im VERY vocal.. but he is too! and its SUCH A TURN ON!!!!! it sounds weird thinking of a guy being vocal, but its amazing… lol.
Post # 10
@MrsGax2B: my old roomie’s boyfriend was very vocal. it was awkward :p (seeing as her room shared a wall with the living room and they didn’t care what time of day it was).
Post # 11
I am VERY loud… especially when it’s the O… I usually start off quite then um yeah…..
Post # 12
I’m in the “it depends” catagory; I tend to be louder during drunk sex. Other than that, mostly breathy.
Post # 13
I answered “Yes, because it’s what I think I’m supposed to do” but “Yes, because my husband likes it” would be more accurate. I’m not naturally loud although alcohol sometimes changes that for me too. 🙂
Post # 14
This is a personal one!
I make noises. Sometimes more than other times. I am not a very loud person normally, so I guess that translate the same in bed. Fiance and I usually tell each other I love you as well.
Post # 15
My noises are typically centered around letting him know what I like/what he’s doing right. I really enjoy doing that because he gets this look of pride on his face that I find to be a wonderful turn-on
Post # 16
It depends on the sex. Sometimes it’s the loud, raw, nasty, rough sex and I yell, then sometimes it’s the slow, sex therapy type that makes me moan and breath heavy.
Was that TMI?LOL