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Are you wearing a veil?

posted 2 years ago in Accessories
  • poll: Are you wearing a veil to your wedding?
    Well, of course! : (54 votes)
    57 %
    Nah, not my thing. : (25 votes)
    27 %
    Haven't decided yet! : (14 votes)
    15 %
    Other : (1 votes)
    1 %
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    krgk84    July 18, 2009   Bloomington, IN

    So, I have both a custom feather fascinator piece from Etsy AND also a veil...I've never really been into veils but for whatever reason I gave in and bought one when I got my dress...andddd of course it's not returnable.

    Anywho, we're having a non-religious ceremony, not in a church. If I can sell the veil I'm thinking of just wearing the fascinator.

    Are you wearing a veil? Do you think it's a "must have"?

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    frog    July 17, 2010   Phoenix, AZ

    Honestly, I wasn't planning to until one was thrown in for free with my dress. It's gorgeous so I think I'll wear it for the ceremony. Either way, I never planned to wear one for the reception - I have a feeling I will be tossing my head to many songs on the dance floor! :)

     
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    krgk84    July 18, 2009   Bloomington, IN

    Yeah if mine were free I might go ahead and wear it for the ceremony....just hoping to maybe sell it to someone who really wants to use it and just wear my hair piece lol

     
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    RoddyBride09    September 5, 2009   Bethlehem, PA

    I voted for "Nah, not my thing". I was never really fond of wearing a veil and since I am not getting married in a church, I am definitely not wearing one. It just doesn't fit the vibe of the venue.

    As a replacement, I will be wearing a white flower with black feather fascinator that I bought on Etsy. I love it!

     
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    tag117    August 29, 2009  

    I will be wearing a veil. Since I began envisioning my wedding, I knew I'd have a beautiful wedding dress, and veil. I will be getting married in an outdoor ceremony too. I don't think there are any rules to whether or not you wear a veil. I think it often becomes a personal preference! I believe it completes the look of a beautiful bride though.

     
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    chelseamorning    November 1, 2008   Washington, DC/Atlanta

    I loved, loved wearing a veil. It was my favorite part of my wedding ensemble. You get to wear a veil one day in your life, and I didn't want to miss that. It really made me feel like a bride. There are so many veil options out there, too. During my honeymoon I put my veil on practically every night for my new husband :)

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I feel like I kinda have to have the veil for the ceremony. Not sure why, I feel like it's the icing on the cake even though I don't really love the way it looks on me. Very "bride" I guess. My mom however, says it's a requirement with the blsuher and everything but she's kinda old fashioned. I skipped the blusher. I went for a waltz length. She was just in love with it so much and they all kinda looked/felt the same to me, so I said whatever and let her pick mine out. She also wants me to wear it on the tippy top of my head. NOT! I don't want it poofing out over like a big monstrous thingy on my head though. I'm taking it off for the reception FOR SURE.

     
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    minneapolitan    11/7/2009   Minneapolis, MN

    I didn't think I'd want a veil, and when I was dress shopping and they'd plant one on me, it was just confirmed.  I really didn't like the look on me at all and I don't particularly like the symbolism of them either.  My mom seemed a little disappointed that I wasn't buying a veil but c'est la vie.  I'm not wearing one.

     
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    Miss Snowflake    August 8, 2009   Columbia, MO

    I wasn't going to wear one at first, but when the lady at the bridal salon plopped the matching veil for my dress on my head... I just teared up. I finally felt like a bride. I figure, hey, when else in my life am I ever going to get to wear a veil? :)

     
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    cheerful    September 2009 - eloped  

    For me, it's the bouquet that makes me feel like 'bride.' Weird, I know, but how often do we go around clutching a lovely bunch of flowers while we go through life? The veil, nah, not for me, especially after I saw a poor outdoor bride get entirely tangled in hers while the MOH fought desperate against the breeze to hold the thing down. ps. outdoors, microphone, and long veil do not mix!

     
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    mary-alice-me    May 24, 2009   Kentucky

    No veil for me, and it was just fine. I already felt dressed up in costume just wearing the dress.

    I like veils, though, and it's a decision you should make based on what you want and what kind of wedding look you're going for. Either is acceptable!

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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    I really can't decide! My issue is that I want to wear my (long) hair down in a vintage, Veronica Lake-type finger wave style, and if I wore a veil I would want to wear a lace cathedral veil (just for ceremony and pictures), and I can't really do both I don't think. I don't know. I'm as yet undecided. If I end up doing a low bun instead of the hair down (although I doubt I will) I am definitely going to wear a veil. I think a veil would make me feel more bride-y.

     
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    MaybeeBecca    August 22, 2009   Kansas City, MO

    I don't think veils are essential (I used to, back when I was a little more traditional :-P) and I love some of the other headpieces I've seen, but I think I'm going to wear one. In fact, it looks like I may be wearing my mom's veil (I have a lace dress and she has a lace-edged veil). I'm going to try it on this weekend and see how it looks, then decide.

     
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    vhoef02    July 25, 2009  

    At first I wasn't planning on wearing a veil, and then when I decided I wanted one, my mom offered to make it. I plan on wearing it for our outdoor ceremony, and for some pictures, and then will take it off for the reception!  I definitely don't think it is necessary, and I have been to many weddings where the bride doesn't wear one and I don't even notice!  Keep us posted on what you decide!

     
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    HouseofJ    5/25/2010   longmont, co

    At first i had no idea, but then I fell in love with a crazy birdcage veil!

     
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    I'm not wearing a veil, def not my thing...but I am wearing a wreath of flowers with some white ribbons down the back in place of a veil...

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    katrinab    July 11, 2009   Boston, MA

    Originally I was thinking no veil, but FI was like you haaaaave to wear a veil. So I conceded. And now I am totally into it and kind of obsessed! Trying to figure out if I want to go with birdcage or chapel length with blusher...I know, totally opposite looks but I can't decide! Ahhh! (Luckily I have both in hand since the wedding is in three weeks!)

     

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    its not a must have my any means. 

    My advice is to try different styles of veil - length, embellishments, layers, etc.  I didnt want one at first - all of these salons kept sticking these fingertip length ones and mantillas on me and I HATED them.  Finally I went to Kleinfeld and told Randy I didnt want one.  He proceeded to do my hair in a low chignon and put on a simple cathedral length one layer veil - no lace, no pencil edge, no embellishments - and I was HOOKED.  I love it.  Ill wear it for the ceremony and some photos then remove it.  Im wearing a flower in my hair too - still trying to find one!

     

     
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    Jenniphyr    February 2, 2013   Alberta, Canada

    I voted undecided. I really really WANT to wear a veil, but I'm worried about how it will look with my dress. =) If I do wear a veil, it'll be with a blusher!

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    I did not wear a veil.  We didn't get married in a church and I didn't feel obligated to have one.  I tried them on, but just didn't love the look with my dress.  I was happy with my decision to be veil-less. 

     
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    august15bride    August 15, 2009   St. Petersburg, FL

    It is a "must have" for me. When I put it on, I felt like a bride!

     
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    fontgoddess    August 8, 2009   British Columbia, Canada

    I didn't have strong feelings about it one way or another at the beginning of planning. I found a dress that I loved. It seemed to cry out for a veil, so I got one. It's beautiful, but Holy Smoke, I just about fell over when they rang it up! I think I'm going to go into the wedding veil business after I'm married. It's obviously a licence to print money. :-)

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