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    Mrs. Louboutin    July 2010  

    My dress is ivory, but has some sparkly beading on the bodice in certain areas.  I'm not sure if I should wear pearls or diamonds.  I'm also considering not wearing a necklace at all (the dress is strapless) and going only with dangling earrings and a bracelet.  What are you ladies wearing?

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    Yes. Both, most likely. (Pearls and diamonds, that is).

     
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    gidgett    March 13, 2010   Nashville

    My dress is ivory with sparkly beading too, but I really want to wear pearls! (I read Anne of Green Gables too much as a little girl...)

     
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    honeybun    June 5, 2010   VA

    My dress is also very sparkly up around the top (and is strapless) so I'm don't think I'm doing a necklace either.  Probably just the earrings and bracelet.  But I have no idea what kind yet!

     
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    scissors    June 19, 2010   Atlanta, Ga

    Oh, yeah, my dress is the antithesis of sparkly. So fail, me, fail. :p

     
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    mspaisley    January 1, 2000  

    I'm wearing a large, single teardrop shaped pearl on a very fine gold chain. It's simple and lovely and rests in just the right spot in between my collarbones. Then for earings I'm wearing the dangling aqua earrings from Anthropologie. They don't match but I think they look great together and with the strapless satin dress I'm wearing (no beading).

     
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    Im doing a very simple diamond necklace.  My dress isnt sparkly at all though

     
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    I'm wearing diamonds (necklace = something old) and my dress is also beaded on top. I think I will wear studs, necklace and some sort of bracelet which may be pearls. My dress is white so I would need to find some light pearls if I incorporate them.

     
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    KMSull    August 7, 2010   Lexington, KY (via Atlanta, GA)

    pearls! So classic. Plus I feel like whatever dress I end up with won't look with diamonds; just not my style. I more or less subscribe to Audrey Hepburn's idea in Breakfast at Tiffany's that wearing alot of diamonds before you're 40 is "tacky" (movie words, not mine!). Alot is over the top. Diamond studs or a pendant = totally okay and chic. But a bib-style necklace of them? It's a bit much (unless you're a PRINCESS! WHEE!)

     
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    iswimibikeirun    May 15, 2010   Houston

    Both.  Pearl necklace (from my parents or aunt--haven't decided on which ones yet0 and diamond earrings (from FI).

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    I wore both. I had some pearl/diamond earrings, a big diamond necklace, and um. yeah, i rocked some bling. Then i had a really blingy fake bracelet on that was really high quality so it blended w/o looking cheap even tho it was fake.

     
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    spaniel    March 2010   Los Angeles, CA

    I think you could do either pearls or diamonds, most likely. Can you show us the beading on your dress at all?

    My dress has pearls, sequins and beads along the top of the bodice, but I'm wearing neither pearls nor diamonds! So far it's just gold and silver metal jewelry (although I hear the earrings my aunts are having made have rubies in them... not sure if they'll get worn on game day if they're red! ;).

     
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    tvilase    11/28/09   Los Angeles

    Neither! I'm wearing lapis lazuli earrings - my something blue : ) Haven't decided yet on the necklace.

     
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    IA_Snowflake    August 29, 2009   Missouri Valley, IA

    I wore pearls (necklace, earrings, bracelet).  I also had a strapless dress.  Now that I see the pictures I kind of wished I had left the neacklace off.

     
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    mskalinin    Sept. 12, 2009   North East

    Neither - wore a big yellow jade stone with citrine, topaz and peridot accents. Wore peridot earrings.

     
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    realeastcoaster    July 11, 2009   Canada

    Pearls all the way - I love them to death.

     
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    PeytonL79    12/6/2009   DC Area

    My FI gave me some amazing earrings last Christmas, and they are the only jewelry I'm wearing -

    http://www.judithripka.com/18-k-couture-collection/capri/oval-canary-crystal-and-diamond-earrings.html

    Except mine are clear, not canary.  I LOVE them!

     
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    Future Mrs. Martin    August 21, 2010   London Ontario Canada

    My dress has no bling so I think I am just going to do a pearl necklace with dropped pearl earrings!

     
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    lkbphmd    August 7, 2010   MN (ceremony in Omaha, NE)

    My dress has almost no bling, except for two little crystal/pearl embellishments at the straps, so it could go either way.  I have a diamond engagement necklace and I've hinted that all I'm missing are a lovely pair of earrings to complete the set...just need to see if FI picks up that not so subtle hint! 

     
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    Querida       Sugar Land, TX

    Yes and yes - well pearls and crystals probably.  My earrings are crystal and silver deco-style vintage type.  I recently saw some amazing jewelry at TARGET (?!) that was gold with seed pearl and a crystal (lt topaz?)...  I'm kinda lusting after that now.   I also have a bangle bracelet that's pave set CZ all over it looks sparkly without looking like too much bling...

    @fifty - all the more reason for you to be sparkly!!!

     
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    futuremrsreed    June 26, 2010   Davis, CA; wedding in Reno, NV

    My dress has diamond accents only and no pearls, so I am wearing only diamonds. I think it depends on the detail of the dress. If you have a plain dress then you could go either way.

     
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    JsDragonfly    December 29, 2009  

    My dress has some sparklies on it too and I'm wearing diamonds.  My great grandmother gave me a pair of diamond earings when I turned 18.  They happened to be the last present that my great grandfather gave to her before he passed away, so they have a ton of sentimental value to them.  I promised her I would wear them on my wedding day...One of my co-workers has a single solitaire diamond necklace that she is letting me borrow on the wedding day, so I'll have my something borrowed! 

     
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    winter443    5/15/10   Atlanta

    I'll probably do diamonds, no pearls.  If you're doing the dangly earrings I agree with you on not wearing a neckline, it tends to be too much.

     
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    OttawaBride2011    May 21, 2011   Ottawa, Ontario

    i am in a love affair with pearls so yes i will be wearing them in some form or another! i have a strand i want to wear, but i am not sure how they will go with my dress, so i might do a bracelet instead.

     
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    futuredrbraun    May 15, 2010  

    I love pearls and have never had such a special occasion to wear them to! I am really excited :) I am wearing chandalier pearl earrings with a classic pearl necklace :) My gown is all lace so I am going for the classic/romantic look!!

     
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    lemondrop    March 13, 2010   Arizona

    Pearls- an old freshwater pearl necklace and bracelet set that my folks got me long ago.  Now I just need to make some earrings to match it. 

     
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    LatteLove    June 19, 2009   Chicago/San Diego

    I think pearls are pretty classic with anything.  I would only pick diamond if that's your thing. 

    My dress wasn't sparly at all, but I wore only pearls (earrings, necklace, bracelet)

     
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    spaganya    September 4, 2010   Arlington, VA/wedding in Williamsburg, VA

    pearls!!! :) well except for my ring :)

     
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    almostduffy    3-12-2010   socal

    mostly pearls (grandma's bracelet) and a pearl and rhinestone necklace and earings

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    jmc    12-12-09   long island city, ny

    I am wearing two pearl necklaces and a diamond necklace and drop pearl earrings and bracelets and a feather fascinator.  I like to accessorize.

     
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    Mrs. Louboutin    July 2010  

    @jmc - how are you doing the necklaces?  That sounds really beautiful and interesting!  I would love to know what that looks like!

     

    For the poster that asked to see a picture of the dress. Here is it on the model in Champagne (mine is in Ivory, but the beading is the same).

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    futuremrsreed    June 26, 2010   Davis, CA; wedding in Reno, NV

    I am wearing diamonds only. In Mexican culture (not sure if maybe it is just around here?) pearls are bad luck to wear at a wedding and while they are some of my favorite gems and I wear them all the time, I am leaving them off for my wedding day and I deliberately chose a dress without them

    That being said, pearls are classic and timeless and really do go with EVERYTHING.

     
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    LittleLynx    May 28, 2011   Canada

    I'll probably be wearing diamonds. My FMIL offered to let me borrow a set of her jewelery - she said it would go with my ring pretty well. I thought it was really sweet of her and will probably take her up on the offer :)

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    Both.  My earrings are pearl and crystal ($7.99 from Target!) and I haven't purchased any other jewerly yet.

    Since my wedding is New Year's Eve, I do plan on being extra sparkly! :)

     
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    Miss Sparklespaniel    November 13, 2010   VIC, Australia

    My dress will have no bling, sequins, crystals - no nothing! I've even forbidden any shiney fabric - I want everything to be very matte! I'm gonna go with some BIG pearl studs (may or may not be the real deal - depends on the budget!) and I'm not wearing a necklace cos my dress will have a netting overlay kinda like this one from Runaway Bride but my dress will have a sweetheart neckline. I'm still trying to decide about bracelets but I'm thinking not cos I'd really like to rock some cute little wrist length gloves with my 50's tea length prom style dress!

     
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    Miss Sparklespaniel    November 13, 2010   VIC, Australia

    Shoot - I forgot to add the picture!

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