Post # 1
I’m less than 2 months away and I went from being okay/excited to being an emotional mess. Just wondering if this is normal or if anybody else is experiencing it too?
I find I get teary about small things lately and a lot of pain from my past is resurfacing. Some things that I didn’t worry about for a few months like my dad not coming to the wedding is really getting me down all of a sudden. Really feel like an emotional mess.
Struggling to pick myself up and it is affecting my work.
I also have baggage from previous relationships resurfacing – like all I had to go through to get to this point.
Please share your experience or lack therof.
Post # 2
I’m 3 months out and I just had an epic cry out this morning to the fiancé. Just dealing with family drama on his side of the family (MIL is a drug addict, SIL hates it her SIL, who I am talking to so other SIL is taking it out on me. And MIL hates SIL who I talk to, so her and other SIL are causing drama and being non existent with this wedding planning.. If you follow that), dealing with non existent bridesmaids, work is extremely busy and to top it all off, the fiances best man lives with us right now, so I can’t even come home and vent to my FI because the best man is ALWAYS there and gives his unwanted opinion.
On top of that, just dealing with insecurities and feeling like a terrible person for feeling anger towards people. I know I have a right to be angry but at the same time, I feel bad for being so angry.
So yeah, I am pretty emotional as well right nownow
Post # 3
MatrixDonna: my wedding is in 13 days and I had a total breakdown today and ended up sitting on my bathroom floor bawling my eyes out about something I was definitely over reacting about.
Post # 4
OH GOSH! Were more like 4months out and the anxiety is killing me!!! lol
Post # 5
40 days till we get married. I’m at my normal level of crazy. Maybe I’ll be more emotional closer to the wedding.
Post # 6
I’m 5 weeks out and I’m a mess. So with you,girl! Hang in there.
Post # 7
- Wedding: October 2014 - Church
MatrixDonna: I’m starting to get nervous and excited – I’m sure it will only get worse when it gets to mid/end of September. Thank goodness a lot of things are done and work is going to be really crazy-busy as things come closer or else I would go crazy, I am sure.
Post # 8
- Wedding: October 2014 - Our Backyard/Steakhouse
It’s more FI than me…we’re fighting far more than usual lately Anything sets him off some days. We both know that it’s just two months until almost all of the stress is over but good lord help us get to October 4!!!!
Post # 9
I dont know what I am. I think I’m more tired than anything else. I come home from work and pass out for a few hours, even though I have tons of little things to do. BAHHH.
Post # 10
I’d say that emotions were high in the 2-3 weeks leading up to my wedding. At one point my husband and I were saying, “let’s try not to kill each other before we get married.” I think we were both a little on edge with making sure everything got done in time, and the stress was getting to us. But we made it through and I think it was all worth it. 2 months will go by so fast and it’ll be the happiest and best day of your lives! Good luck!
Post # 11
I am also in October and feel like the time is just flying… and will be here before we all know it. I am having anxiety about getting everything together, getting the timing right for that day-of scheduling, pleasing everyone, etc.
I wouldn’t say that my mom and I have butt heads since I got engaged, but things haven’t been all butterflies and rainbows between us – and I kind of regret that. I’m her oldest and first daughter getting married, and I know this is a special time for her… and I feel like I’m ruining it by being snippy (with some of suggestions), or just freaking out on her about little things that are just dumb. I am making it a goal to make the next couple of months to MUCH better between us, and I think that may help with my emotions.
Post # 12
MatrixDonna: I voted Just a bit- but I think Its going to get worse!!! 4 weeks out and I had a freak out at my fitting yesterday decided I hate my dress and nearly cried ( i held it together) at the bridal store
I literally was stress free until July when I had so manyguest list invite issues and then I am now starting to see week by week my stress is creeping up lol