(Closed) Are/were your vows very traditional, very personal, or somewhere in between?

posted 6 years ago in Ceremony
  • poll: What are/were your vows like?
    Highly traditional : (4 votes)
    31 %
    Modern/updated traditional : (4 votes)
    31 %
    A mix of traditional and personalized : (5 votes)
    38 %
    Highly personalized : (0 votes)
  • Post # 3
    5993 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: May 2010

    very traditional.  i think i even promised to obey although i deny all knowledge to my husband! the minister didnt speak to us about vows before we married and writing our own was something we never thought of/wanted to do

    Post # 4
    4046 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    I think I will go traditional. I am absolutely terrified to write my own vows!

    Post # 5
    2580 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: November 1999

    Ours were traditional, but we’re Jewish so they were also in Hebrew. They weren’t personalized, but I liked being connected to an old tradition!

    I think I would be nervous to read vows I wrote myself…I’m sure I would have cried! I think it can be really beautiful, but we went to a friend’s wedding where the groom gave the most overblown self-written vows–I would be afraid of mine veering that way

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