- 6 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
I am so irritated with my FI! It is my 25th birthday soon and I said from the beginning I wanted a family dinner for my birthday which we haven’t done in along time. I sent out emails to all my family to let them know and my mom is hosting a birthday dinner so my brother, SIL, niece and parents and Fiance will be there.
Our friends are having there stag and doe just over an hour away on the same night as my birthday (it is a Saturday). My Fiance has now brought up TWICE “why can’t we do dinner then drive to the stag and doe”. I told him I want to spend my 25th birthday with my family and if we hang out and it goes late I don’t want to worry about having to leave my own party early after asking everyone to gather for it to drive to our friend’s stag and doe.
Am I being unreasonable? He says I should make an effort to do the stag and doe and I am saying it is my damn birthday to which my family is gathering which I haven’t done in forever and I want to do whatever I want to do on my birthday.
Who is in the right?