- 7 years ago
- Wedding: May 2013
Sbe cannot make it!
Let me preface by saying I have had major surgery on the 17th (labrynthetctomy, google it LOL) and I cannot drive atll. So I have to rely on everyone else… that effin sucks. Meake senee? so here is the story
i am almost in tears now. I had/ghave a friend that ttold me to schedule a dress appointment on Thurs anyting after noon. so I scheduled it for thursday at 3… I told her my schedule and she said yes,, then i got to thinking that Wed (today) wuld be better but Tiff assured me that she wanted to b there Thursday s I got the news today that she can’t make it. I am so upset! I wanted it to be today as it would have been more convenient for my family as I cannot drive and my son could take me (he is a huge part of this whole thing, bu thas band practice tomorrow and has a major show on sunday) My son was all ready to take me today, but i told him that Tiffany was going to give me a ride an was looking forwars to the appointment… and seemed genuinly excited for me.
well, i just talked to her, and she has made other plans?! wtf is up with that? I arrange my schedule to make sure you can go, then you can’t go anyhow. But I knew if I went today she would be all butthurt! I am serioulsy very upset.
So I could have gone today but, out of respect and concern of her feelings I saited until tomorrow. and now htere is no tomorrow… do i have the right to be really upset/hurt/pissed?
I just don’t get it? Was she waiting for something “to come up. There is no reason her husband can’t be there and take care of all ths business on his own (no, it isn’t taxes, or anything else really imporant. he certainly can handle this himself for a couple of hours…
he can deal with it all. I just feel crushed right now…
I am like weepy and everything. Just at the principle of the thing. I do not mind going out alone or anything its just the principle of the thing and I have to rely on others at te mom
In fac,thats it… no one is going dress shopping with me ever. I am a big girl and I can make up my mine on my own. ef it! sick of jealous people, sick of people who don’t think i’m important.. iseriously yea, its been that kind of day:(
BUT… THE GOOD NEWS IS… I have this board, and i know at least 2 or 3 have been i n the same situation. I love it here:)
peace and love.