- 4 years ago
- Wedding: October 2013
Firstly – if I have offended anyone with my opinions – I’m sorry but I do my best to be open and honest.
But within myself I feel that I am looking on the bad side of everything…and I don’t want to say for eg stay when it’s pretty obvious one should go!
I’m currently 38+1 pregnant, with a headcold, so I’m hoping I just feel a bit flat.
Then comes a lack of understanding on my behalf about weddings…I’m pretty good with culture but i think with different countries – ie American ways compared to Australian ways…I’m on another planet!!
I hate to admit I do spend a fair bit of time reading and thinking wtf?!! I’m country born and bred through and through so maybe alot of what happens at/to do with weddings in capital cities around Aust may differ to what I’m used to. No, we’re not a bunch of country hicks with no idea, but the differences amaze me.
Diamonds are a girls best friend here and I was lucky enough to wind up with a beautiful .87 solitaire which cost the earth, yet when I see pics here and on telly etc (moreso on tv – no offense, of boys and girls with no jobs etc sporting 2-3 carats….mostly tv) my education has definately broadened to learn about moissys etc. could’ve saved ourselves a few $$$!!
Pleasing people…omg…it just can’t be done….yet so many of you are willing to compromise on Your big day to keep your 5th cousin happy…I applaud you – I’d tell them and their drama to f off!!!
Relationships….you pour your feelings onto the board pointing out that you’re unhappy with your FI, or a friend, family member/s etc. You give enough info for me/us to see clearly where the problem is…but you don’t?!nI find myself wanting to scream at the screen that you’ve identified the problem…but you’re the one who can’t see it!??
I’ve already found that there are certain members on this board that I’ll skim through to see their comments first, because I always find they’re so level headed and what they’ve said makes sense. Then I’ll read the rest, and then post.
Anyway, the whole pount of this post is to say sorry if I seem harsh or mean or rude….I’m generally giving you My opinion, and that’s all it is.