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Article on how a mother's facebook statuses about pregnancy turned into sorrow

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    pamplemousse    Fall 2010  

    I just read this in the Washington Post and wanted to share. This is an incredibly sad story and the way she captured it in her detailed status posts is even more heartbreaking.

     

    http://www.washingtonpost.com/wp-srv/special/metro/facebook-story-mothers-joy-familys-sorrow.html

     
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    BrooklynBride10    October 9, 2010   nyc

    How heartbreaking. :(  That was difficult to read, I can't imagine going through that. :(  My thoughts are with her family and friends. 

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    OMG I just cried my eyes out!

     
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    MissBoPeep       New England

    Cry That is so sad.

     
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    HisIrishPrincess    March 23, 2012  

    OMG that is one the most terrible things i've read in awhile.  I'm sitting here at work trying so hard not to bawl.  That poor baby and her husband.  It's easy to tell she was well loved.

     
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    Lindsay12.31.2010    December 31, 2010   Missouri

    How sad.  :-( Such a heartbreaking story.

     
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    2PeasinaPod       Philadelphia

    Ugh...how awful! I had read a similar story about a young mother who struggled with seisures and eventually did not make it either. Her husband had blogged about it and it was such a sad story. My thoughts and prayers go out to this family.

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    OMG that is so sad! :-( Wow that is terrible.

     
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    noodlefish    November 27, 2010  

    :( what a heartbreaking story... That poor family.

     
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    Treasure43    September 18, 2010  

    Just finished it...how heartbreaking. I'm in tears.

     
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    rainbow    January 1, 2011   Tampa

    Oh my gosh, that is the most heartbreaking thing I've read in a really long time. Cry That poor family. She seemed so full of life, such a happy, upbeat person. Sad.

     
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    kayakgirl73    October 31, 2009   Virginia, (wedding in WV)

    Very sad.  The lady had actually posted about some of her experience on a DC moms messge board also.

     
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    Mrs Green Grass    August 14, 2010  

    It's just so personal to see it all through Facebook updates...

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    Oh gosh, that was so sad. :(

     
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    lola2011    March 4, 2011   Chicago

    Wow. That's so depressing.

     
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    nil    July 22, 2011   Belgium

    omg it so sad, all my prayer for her family

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    To me the hardest thing was reading on October 28 that she was being moved to Hopkins and that it was "a good thing to be sure" and then 3 days later she passed away. It just makes you realize how life is precious and you really just never know when your time will be. It is scary :-(

     
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    crayfish    September 11, 2010   Berkeley, CA

    Ugh. Because I wasn't already terrified enough about giving birth.

     
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    RR    October 2012  

    I'm sitting at work, too... my eyes are dripping tears. How incredibly sad.

    I've had times in my life where I've overheard women speaking about how they want a girl/boy blue eyes/brown eyes, ect (so many of us have done it)... There is something to be said about just wanting a healthy baby and a healthy Mama and nothing more...

    @crayfish- I second that... it ran past my mind as well.

     
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    RequiemOfDecember    October 27, 2012   USA~

    @crayfish - I know right? I know someone who had twins and almost died during the delivery, turned out sheh ad congestive heart failure.

     

    on topic: I read this the other day and I can't believe something like this can happen still just from giving birth

     
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    pamplemousse    Fall 2010  

    Yeah this was pretty hard to read :(  But take note that her condition of postpartum cardiomyopathy is rare!  

    In the United States, peripartum cardiomyopathy complicates 1 in every 1,300 - 4,000 deliveries. It may occur in childbearing women of any age, but it is most common after age 30.

     

    http://www.nlm.nih.gov/medlineplus/ency/article/000188.htm

     
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    JamaicaBride    May 14, 2011   Charlotte, NC

    This was really sad. But on a positive note, you could tell from the FB postings that she lived the life she had to the fullest.

     
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    ktbrady    October 29, 2011   North Carolina

    That is so so sad.

     
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    jam    June 2011   Chicago, Ill.

    Noooo! What a sad story, I can't even imagine what every person involved must be going through. : (

     
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    pamplemousse    Fall 2010  

    There was one small thing that bothered me in this... 


    Jeffrey Swers Shana is going through a rough time in the hospital. To cheer her up, post a memory or funny story that lets her know why she is special to you. I will start with the story of our first July 4th together. I said we should have a cookout, thinking we would just make some hot dogs. Shana put out a full spread complete with plastic silverware wrapped in napkins with a bow. I knew that she was something special.

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    Why was there only 1 comment!

     
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    eupenmalmody    September 5, 2010   Living in NYC - getting married in Philadelphia

    It definitely puts life into perspective. Makes me feel like my stresses from this morning relating to Christmas shopping aren't that major in the grand scheme and I should be focusing on family. Thank you for posting.

     
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    RR    October 2012  

    @pamplemousse: I thought the same thing. 

     
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    LoveTheLake    September 12, 2009  

    @pamplemousse: Im wondering if the got the screen grab before there were more comments?  Or perhaps people posted the memories to her wall isntead of as a reply.  I have to think that with all of her support more people would have written some wonderful memories.  This story has me heartbroken and I dont know anyone involved.  And I third that this is a while new fear of pregnancy for me now. 

     
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    RayRayFurious    May 2013   NJ

    My goodness. That was heartbreaking. She seemed like such a lovely young woman, wife, and mother. Blessings to her family and friends.

     
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    pamplemousse    Fall 2010  

    @LoveTheLake: ooh i see what you mean. i hope she got to read some of the responses before she passed.

     
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    bree72    December 31, 2008  

    Really sad (and scary). I used to read Matt Logelin's blog shortly after his wife's passing from childbirth, and I just can't even imagine. You just don't think about the fact that women still die from giving birth. 

    www.mattlogelin.com

     

     
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    I kept telling myself not to cry, but how hearbreaking!  Her son was only a little more than a month old...

     

    Cry

     
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    Treasure43    September 18, 2010  

    @eupenmalmody: I agree 100%!

     
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    jayce    December 10, 2010  

    Oh man, that last post from her husband... that just about tore my heart in half.


     
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    mrstilly    May 15, 2010   Ithaca, NY

    Wishing I hadn't read that. Not the best kind of story for expecting moms.

     
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    kitzy    June 2011  

    i bawled my eyes out the first time i read this, but i've gone back to read it 3 more times since it was first publised because it's so beautiful.

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Oh wow.  There should be a big warning on this article... Tears here.

     
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    Vitsippa    October 10, 2010  

    My goodness, that is so sad! Frown

     
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    Vitsippa    October 10, 2010  

    My goodness, that is so sad! Frown

     
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    Blueshoes2    June 2010   PA

    Such a sad story - frightening too.  :(  I feel sorry for everyone involved. 

     

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