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Hey hive,

Mr and I are trying to figure out where to book our honeymoon. We're thinking either Aruba or Cabo San Lucas. We were originally thinking an all-inclusive, but some other resorts seem to have better review. Does anyone have suggestions or recommendations for either place??

Thanks!

Pueblo Bonita Pacifica - it's a holistic, adults only resort and spa.  It's part of a larger resort where you can also use amenities at a few other hotels.  I stayed in the Montecristo, in a private villa that would be way too big for a honeymoon, but spent a lot of time at the Pacifica. It is gorgeous.

Rated #2 of Cabo San Lucas hotels on tripadvisor (I live by tripadvisor).  The #1 pick is more of a budget hotel.  Pacifica has a great restaurant, pools and spa services.  Relaxing and quiet, but you can go to the other hotels if you want a livelier scene, or into town for shopping/nightlife/swimming beach. 

The downside of this resort is that you can't swim on the beach at the because the waves are way too strong there.  Not sure about surfing, but it is a bit of a drive to get to a good location for windsurfing.  If that is important to you, perhaps look elsewhere.

I haven't been to Aruba, so I can't make comparisons.  But this was pure bliss.

http://www.tripadvisor.com/Hotel_Review-g152515-d543023-Reviews-Pueblo_Bonito_Pacifica_Holistic_Retreat_Spa-Cabo_San_Lucas_Los_Cabos_Baja_California.html

thanks for the insight. anyone else have thoughts on aruba?

Ive been to the Rui in Cabo and no complaints at all.  In fact on the way down from the airport we shared a shuttle with a couple who had been there 13 (yes, thirteen!) times before.  They said they loved it so much because you are guaranteed good weather since it only rains a few days a year.  The resort was right next to Lands End and very nice. Ttheres a lot of great places in Cabo so you wont have a hard time finding a cool place. 

I've been to Aruba and know friends that went to Cabos this year. 

Both are marvelous destinations but in my personal opinion, Aruba might win for their calmer waters and romantic settings (almost every inch of it is a "romantic spot.")  I stayed at the Amsterdam Manor hotel that's on the end of the strip - it was a good choice for me since it's more quiet, secluded and you can always find a spot on the beach without it being so crowded.  It's also known for it's restaurant on the beach called Passions. 

Like mentioned above, I wouldnt' do all inclusive just because Aruba is full of great spots to eat and you probably wouldn't want to spend all day at your hotel anyways.  Renaissance has it's own private island that you can go to if you are a guest and if you go - be sure to go to flying fishbone restaurant!

I just got back from Cabo on September 25th.  My MOH and I went for a relaxing "bachelorette escape" for six nights and seven days.  I have traveled to Mexico several times, but this was my first time in Cabo.  We stayed at the AI RIU Santa Fe.  Nice property, close to downtown, and very clean.  However, I found it to be hot as HELL while we were there.  It was easily 90-100 degrees which made it hard to do anything except sit in the pool during the day.  You can not swim in the ocean unless you are attempting suicide.  The sun beat down on us all day long.....which was nice, but H-O-T!! Let me say that I am ALWAYS cold and I was like "crank the A/C!" which is something I never say.  We tried to make a shopping trip to downtown Cabo, but the heat was too overwhelming.  The scenery was breathtaking from our hotel. 

Overall, I found Cabo to be just okay.  I *really* love Puerto Vallarta, so it was hard to compete.  I definately recommend checking out tripadvisor.com   It's my go to site when traveling.  Lots of honest opinions and photos.  Good luck & congrats!!