Ask bridesmaids all at once?

posted 2 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 2
439 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2015

Makes complete sense. I went through the exact same issues. I think you should ask the girls closer in time if they also have a friendship with one another. Once you ask one, the others will find out and may be hurt at first – or worse – they might confront you and ask if they’re in the wedding. You don’t want to have to come up with a decision on the spot, so I think you should just wait until you make your final decision on the whole party and then ask everyone relatively close together.

I think that’s the best option, but honestly everything is unpredictable. I asked all my girls close together with cute hangers and a poem, and some posted it to Facebook. I unfortunately couldn’t fit one girl into my wedding and she straight up called and asked if she was a bridesmaid. Awkward.

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