Asking a friend to Officiate?

posted 3 years ago in Bridesmaids
  • poll: Which do you think is best?
    Have L.H. be Maid of Honor and R.B. officiate, it makes them equals in the bridal party : (1 votes)
    33 %
    Have L.H. be Maid of Honor and R.B. as a bridesmaid, explain your choice and move on : (0 votes)
    Have L.H. and R.B. be co-Maids of Honor : (2 votes)
    67 %
    Ask Fiancces sister to be Matron of Honor, have no Maid of Honor : (0 votes)
  • Post # 2
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    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2014

     

    ohyesitslizz:  Yikes, that’s a tough situation. We were thinking about doing the same, only on the groom’s side.

    It really just depends on how R.B. is as a person– as in, would she be hurt/offended if she weren’t asked to be a bridesmaid. Honestly, and this is just me, if I were in your situation, I would get over the fact that having two MOH isn’t “my thing” and have them both be MOH. It really isn’t that big of a deal…I think in the end, all three of you will be most happy with the situation.

    I’m having a hard time choosing my MOH and bridemaids in general situation as well. My only sister is going to be the Matron of Honor, and since I don’t like any of my best friends more than the other, I’m having them all be bridesmaids and ordering them by height.

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