(Closed) Asking my new MOH!? CONFUSED!

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 3
173 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: January 2014

is she hurt by the fact you didnt ask her in the first place? if she really is a close friend and knows what happened with the previous Maid/Matron of Honor, she’ll probably step in gladly!

Post # 5
46 posts
  • Wedding: September 2012

When I picked my Maid/Matron of Honor, it was over my other two best friends I’d known for over 20 years and my daughter.  I explained to them why I picked my friend of only 6 years to be my Maid/Matron of Honor.  I’m sure they were shocked and maybe a little hurt, but my reason was because she was involved with my relationship with my then fiance from Day 1.  They totally understood.  My Maid/Matron of Honor turned out to be Judas and pulled out of my wedding 4 weeks prior.  I asked my daughter, who happily agreed to step in.  Honesty is the best policy.  If you have a wonderful relationship with your friend, asking her to step in may not be an issue.  Good luck!


Post # 6
1832 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: January 2013

Just be honest with her. I’m sure she will accept!

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