Asking old friends to be in wedding

posted 2 years ago in Bridesmaids
Post # 2
Member
163 posts
Blushing bee

how i see it is, you get one day, why on earth would you want any one who is that childish at your wedding let alone standing up there next to you!! 

people grow apart its natural but if people cant recognise that and still be happy to jsut attend your wedding as a guest then they are pretty shitty people. i would pick the people you are closet with not the people who will cause the least fuss – honestly i would rather lose the friendships that be basically blackmailed into having these girls stand up there with me. 

Post # 3
Member
1230 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2015

tobeMrsQ:  I think I read this somewhere on the bee and it’s apropro to your situations: make those people who will be in your future and not your past part if your wedding. 

Go with your heart.

Post # 5
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7206 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

tobeMrsQ:  If a girl will drop you as a friend because you didn’t ask her to be a bridesmaid… she’s not really your friend. If the other girls drop you because of that – they’re not really friends either. I mean really, dropping someone as a friend because your friend isn’t talking to her – that sort of immature behaviour should stay in high school.

Besides, it’s not your old friends’ business how close you are to your new best friend, or how long you’ve known her.

Pick just your sisters and “new” best friend.

Post # 6
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7282 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

I’m utterly confused why you are considering entertaining bullshit petty drama on your day? by people who say wont talk to you again, that you barely converse with anyway. WTF?

Post # 8
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7282 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

Losing friends is part if life. The sooner you accept that the easier life gets. Nothing stays the same foever. Anyone who gets upset about YOUR choice if a bridal party and then ralying others to not speak to you, how is that a friend? Please raise your self esteem. Becuase I don’t understand how is this acceptable behavior, and why you want so desperately to be part of it. sounds like misery to me. But good luck.

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