(Closed) Asking some bridemaids now, others later?

posted 5 years ago in Bridesmaids
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    • Wedding: March 2013

    @Catqween:  I had this very same dilemma!  Im not sure what and if there is any rule but I assumed that other would find out I waited to ask them and it would be weird. So, I asked my family first and then all of my friends in the same day. Looking back I wish I waited so that I thought this through a little more. My only issue is the size of the bridal party itself. I think I would prefer to have a smaller, more intimate one, but it is what it is, and I’m happy with my decision. I realize I asked those people who I did because they are important to me but I also realize that important people, or all important people I should say, have to be included in the wedding party.  Be comfortable with your decision and ask you you definiately want to be there to support you that day.  Dont ask for any other reason, not to please anyone else and not to avoid hurting any feelings.  Hope this helps.

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