- 8 years ago
- Wedding: July 2011
5 years ago, when none of my friends were engaged, much less had boyfriends, we’d all sit around and ask each other what our wedding would be like and who would be a bridesmaid, etc. At that time, I was much closer to my Maid/Matron of Honor and her sister and said that they both would be. Now, I don’t really talk to her sister at all–she acts as if she’s doing me a favor by talking to me and she can be a bit snotty. My Maid/Matron of Honor assumes that her sister will be a bridesmaid. I really don’t want her to be a bridesmaid, but I know the Maid/Matron of Honor will complain bitterly if she isn’t. We could add on another groomsmen to be balanced, but I also don’t want our wedding party be seen as too big.