- 5 years ago
- Wedding: December 2012
All three of my bridesmaids are my sisters (one is my sister-in-law). I never had a set “maid of honor” but one of my sisters (lets call her Heather) has sort of assumed to take the title. She assumes she will be the one standing next to me at the alter, and I never told her no but I never told her yes either. Now throughout the whole wedding planning process, for lack of a better word, she has been a total selfish BITCH. Everything has been an inconvience for her and she has done nothing to help me and do nothing but complain. My other 2 sisters have been so helpful, graciously spent alot of money on my wedding that they did not have to, and have helped me with everything. They have genuinely been happy for me. Now I am days away from my wedding and the rehersal is being discussed. I don’t want Heather standing next to me. How do I address this in the best way possible, since she was always under the impression? As much as she has hurt my feelings throughout wedding planning, I can’t bring myself to do that to her.