(Closed) Assuming an invite..

posted 6 years ago in Etiquette
Post # 3
1917 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: April 2012

That is super rude of them, but it is better to just nip those things in the bud early on and just let them know before they continue to blow up your facebook wall.

Post # 4
5657 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2012

How rude. I think you handled it well.

Post # 5
30 posts

Sounds like you handled it in a good way by sending a PM explaining the reason that you were not able to invite them. If you receive another wall message, change your settings on FB so that they can not post anything on your wall again. But, I would not respond if you receive another message or call regarding it. You have explained why they are not invited and I would leave it at that.

Post # 6
937 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

You are much better than me! I received a message similar to that from a distant cousin my mother’s age whom I hve never met. I just never responded. IDK how I’m going to deal with it when the times comes, but like you, I have no intention of sending her an invite. Ugh! The nerve of some ppl…

Post # 8
106 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: June 2012

That desevers the Stephanie Tanner “How Rude!”

Post # 9
1111 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2012

@Ms.VW: LOL Yes, it does!

I think you handled it perfectly.  That was incredibly rude of her (especially to write you TWICE).

Just out of curiosity, please let us know if she responds…

Post # 10
1278 posts
Bumble bee

I cannot believe that someone is really this rude!  Wow!  Sounds like you handled it very well.  I’m not sure what I would have done.


Post # 12
964 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

I think some of the time people just say it knowing that they wouldn’t be invited.  This girl said to me “Don’t forget my invite” but I think in her case she was just saying it.  She had no idea who I was engaged to and she’s like the town whore and I don’t even know her last name.

In your case I think they really want and invitation.  Unless you are married or have helped someone plan a wedding you really don’t know how expensive it is.  It’s crazy


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