At least I can have wine!

posted 3 years ago in TTC
Post # 2
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475 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: August 2012

I’m in a similar boat – we have been TTC since last September with no luck. I’m sorry for everything you’re going through, it truly is so difficult and seems so unfair sometimes. I hope that you enjoy your wine (that is always my consolation prize as well! haha) and get your BFP soon. Are you seeing a fertility specialist yet?

Post # 4
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2614 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

CityBearBride:  Me! We’ve been TTC since Feb 2013. It’s been a really tough year. I feel more relaxed now that I have my gyn on board and am getting extra help to get pregnant. We’ve done something every month I didn’t get pregnant to soften the blow! In March we went away locally, in April we went to New York and this month we’re going to go away for the weekend. This is getting expensive but worth it!!

I’m really sorry you are in this shitty place too. I really hope you get your bfp or at least get answers soon x

  • This reply was modified 2 years, 6 months ago by  phoebephoebo.
Post # 5
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507 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: September 2014 - Stevens Estate

CityBearBride:  I saw something on the news yesterday that acupuncture helps with TTC. I never heard that before so I don’t know how true it is. FI and I are going to officially start trying after our Sept wedding.

I already have a feeling that we are going to have issues..seeing as we’ve been together 7 yrs and I have never gotten pregnant…although I’ve never really tried either. But I am all for trying natural solutions and some people swear by them.

Post # 6
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3828 posts
Honey bee
  • Wedding: November 1999

PeachBee:  CityBearBride:  Hello friends. i’m in the same boat. Been off BC since September, hit every window, nothing and AF will arrive today or tomorrow. So i’m drinking the biggest coffee and whining. I plan on seeking help if we hit 1 full year and nothing. 

I really do hate it.  I feel like a failure. I know alot more women then i know take while to get pregnant but i just am no good at being patient, especially for something i have waited so long to be ready for. 

Post # 7
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13003 posts
Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2011

Yup, going on 20 month since I stopped BC to TTC.  Never in my wildest nightmares did I think it would take this long.  And to top it off we’ve been seeking the last 6 months to no avail either and all tests coming back in the perfect range. As a consolation prize though, we went to Ireland and Iceland last year, I’m thinking about Greece and Jordan this year…and LOTS and LOTS of wine. 

Post # 8
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6273 posts
Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: October 2013

i feel your pain, we just started testing with the RE at the beginning of this cycle.

i leave for vacation on saturday and i started spotting so more likely than not I will have AF on vacation. and like you, i will be able to enjoy all the wine and beer i want.

 

Post # 9
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2614 posts
Sugar bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

DaniDev143:  I’ve been doing acupuncture since September. It gets expensive fast!!!!

Post # 10
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1526 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

June will make it a year for us.  I have long and irregular cycles so I’ve only had maybe 9 cycles.  My friend and my SIL both started TTC the same time as us and they both have babies already.  Its very hard on both me and my DH.

Post # 11
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2197 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

MrsBaldEagle:  June will also be a year for us. I hear you loud and clearly. Sooo frustrating. I just got a positive OPK today, and while I’m kind of excited, I can’t help but think, “so what? like this cycle will be any different…”

Post # 12
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1526 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

CocoLoco523:  I said that exact phrase to my DH last week!  He was telling me that I should put my legs up after BDing – that started my speech about how we have done everything right for all the cycles and nothing happens – and how so-and-so got pregnant without even trying and I’m sure she didnt put her legs up after sex!

Post # 13
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2197 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: March 2013

MrsBaldEagle:  LOL *raises hand* I’m guilty of putting my legs up. Still didn’t help… *sigh* I’ve even done headstands. 

Post # 14
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1959 posts
Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: June 2013

I’m in the same boat.  June will mark a year for us as well, and I’ve been off BC for 18 months.  We started testing in January and will probably start treatment in the next cycle or two.  I’m pretty positive AF will show up on time this cycle, just a day or two before our anniversary.  Mother Nature is a bitch. 

Post # 15
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1107 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2015

CityBearBride:  I’m in the same boat but happier about the wine lol. Good luck in your endeavors though! 

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