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First, we were getting married in my partners home town in New Zealand.  Then, our lawyer advised us that my partner should not travel yet and we canceled the NZ wedding and are planning a Vegas wedding. 

He says he never wanted to get married in NZ in the first place - so he's thrilled but of course, why he did not just say that in the first place is beyond me! 

Then, he told me it was super important to him to have a Star Wars theme wedding - and I was absolutely on board with that too.   I have actually been 100% on board with everyting he wants!!!

Now, he tells me he doesn't want the Star Wars theme anymore!  What?

Will someone please tell me what the heck is going on with this man please??  What the heck does he want anyway?? Does he really just want me to tell him to sit down, shut up and do things my way?   AAAARGH!!!!

lol. Well, just ask him what is important to him in this wedding. And then once he has made up his mind, tell him there is no going back so is he sure? And then plan everything else but defer to him. I think for the most part men just don't really care but they have preferences. *shrug* Or just tell him to shut up, sit down, and hang on for the ride. I personally would do the latter.

Thanks Miss yap.  I may have to just take a bit more control.  I don't really have a dream wedding in mind whatsoever so I thought he should at least get his dream wedding - but look at where being nice gets you!!!