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# Attendees VS # of Invitees (What were your numbers?)

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    lolony    August 2010  

    Hey guys:

    Just curious...for all you wedding alumni...

    How many people actually came out of the people you invited? I'm trying to figure out what the average attendance rate is!

    Thanks for your input. The support on this board is wonderful!

     

     
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    2dBride    October 6, 2009   Washington, DC.

    104 invited, 71 accepted.  There are five others who are either staff at our venue or can't give us a reply yet for one reason or another.  I'm just hoping all the ones who accepted will actually be there.

     
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    Bella Luna    September 5, 2010   Ohio

    I always heard that 80% will show up whether they RSVP yes or no, and 20% won't. I don't know how true it is, but that's what we're going on. :)

     
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    ErinMarguerite    July 2009   DC Area

    In any event, we invited 185 (including at least 12 we knew would never come) and had 148 RSVP yes.  A total of 4 no-shows, including two people who got incredibly sick and one couple who had a panic attack and couldn't leave the house.  So we had a response rate of just under 80%, and I would say that 90% of our guest list was local, we expected a pretty high response rate.

     
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    jennifer_espos    June 18, 2010   NYC

    I'm not at that point yet but I've spoken to a couple of vendors and they each said that between 20-30% won't show.  I'm hoping that's the case for us!

     
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    KellyV    September 12, 2009   New York, NY

    typically its 80% acceptance.  Ours was lower.  We had a TON of courtesy invites that we knew wouldnt come, and the wedding was OOT for his entire family.  Not just OOT, like halfway or all the way across the county.  We invited about 250, had 145 there

     
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    ejs4y8    June 20, 2009  

    115/204. Most were local

     
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    princetonbride    8/29/2009   NJ

    ours was exactly 75% acceptance. invited 160, 120 came. it was perfect.

     
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    aloweha      

    invited 140, 36 accepted... but we are having a destination wedding.

     
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    lotam240    October 3, 2009   Philadelphia

    216 invited...195 accepted.

     
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    Jessie516    May 16, 2009   Ann Arbor, MI

    Invited 117, had 86 as a final count (including 3 vendors, my husband and me).  Most of the extras were "+1s" who did not attend.

     
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    lolony    August 2010  

    Thanks, everyone. This is good to know! 

     
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    bellecerise    August 22, 2009   Michigan

    Ours was 265 invited, about 170 accepted.  That put us at about 64% acceptance, which was largely a combination of older relatives who weren't comfortable with the drive and quite a few end-of-summer vacations.

     
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    guitargirl    October 2009   Ohio

    We invited 123, we have 106 coming.  All are no's are OOT except one who will be on a trip.  OF course, all the people I didn't want who I invited to shut up my parents are coming- every single one!

     

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