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    PaperCrane       Married!

    Ok! Only 2 - 6 weeks left! Can you believe it? Time to check in again with all the rest of the frazzled August brides.

    What's left on your to-do-before-"we-do" list? What are you most stressed about? What do you feel super relieved to finally check off the list?

     
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    something.blue    August 14, 2010   NY

    Feeling close! Almost all DIY done, still have:

    • Table #s (waiting on venue, arg)
    • Escort Cards (waiting on venue, arg)
    • Welcome Info
    • Final Dress Fitting Tuesday
    • Finalize Seating
    • Missing 3 RSVPs
    • Final random errands!

    The venue is bar far the most stressful, they don't return phone calls and I'd like to go over some things as the date approaches! I've gotten a lot of the "paper stuff" done and other projects as well as almost all the RSVP's in so that feels great!

    Hope everyone's hanging in there!

     
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    MexiPieLove    August 7, 2010   Washington, DC, wedding in Mexico City

    Ahh! Time is zooming by all of a sudden. Here's the to-do's on our list:

     

    • Finalizing seating chart (waiting for a few more RSVPs)
    • Finalizing music must play / do not play lists for DJ and mariachi song list
    • Purchasing out of town bag items / making OOT bags
    • Writing welcome letter
    • Writing itinerary for wedding party
    • Making programs
    • Finalizing ceremony music selections
    • Send rehearsal dinner invitations

    We have a lot to do!Writing this out will get me to move on this stuff for sure.

     

     
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    gabrielleelise1981    August 28, 2010   Portland, Maine

    EEK, time is FLYING by!
    I’ve got a fair amount of DIY left, because it’s stuff I can’t really start until we get all of our RSVPs back (escort cards and table configurations), and until we decide on our bar situation (menu cards). I’ve done what I can with those, so just waiting on RSVPs at this point.

    Also need to:

    • Order flowers for bouquet
    • Buy centerpiece vases
    • Have final 2 dress fittings
    • Pick up wedding bands (should be ready on August 1)
    • Make rehearsal dinner invites
    • Send out rehearsal dinner invites
    • Pick out music (we’ve got some picked, but not the major songs lol)
    • Get second pair of shoes for reception in case my heels hurt too much
    • Order alcohol for rehearsal dinner
    • Making OOT bags
    • Create seating chart
    • UGHHHHHHHHHH so much to do, but little motivation to do it….

     
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    Kittyachi    August 2010   New York

    I can't even comment except to say OY VEY

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    I'm a july 31 bride having an aug 6 reception (from when we get back from our intimate destination wedding)!

    Here's my last to do list:

    • ties for the guys
    • three cylinder vases in diff heights for wine tasting room submurged flower decor during the cocktail hour
    • finishing up some mossy letters and our chair decor
    • finishing up signs for favors, guestbook, and our sendoff
    • printing and finishing up making our monogram decals for the favor bags
    • make the menu and beverage/wine list for the place settings
    • and going shopping to get a few more outfits for me and for my son for the big familymoon trip! 
     
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    Bailzoe    August 2010  

    I don't even know what there is to do. I am somewhat hoping that anything I haven't done already doesn't matter.

    • Glue craft sticks onto our program fans
    • Test run making whoopie pies for favors
    • Actually make the whoopie pies for favors
    • Thank You cards for my lovely ladies for my bridal shower
    • Call the venue with final count / pay venue
    • Pay hair & make-up stylists

    I think I'm pretty well along. I have a seating chart done, only waiting to see if there will be final changes.

    How did time creep up so quickly? It will be less than 20 days on Monday!

     
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    PaperCrane       Married!

    @Kittyachi: don't worry. I'm in the Oy Vey category too.

    To make most everyone feel better about their list- here's mine!

    • find a dj!!!!!! give him play/do not play lists, select special songs
    • have 1st, 2nd, possibly third dress fitting
    • meet with florist to discuss specifics
    • meet with officiant to discuss specifics
    • meet with photog to discuss specifics
    • meet with stylist to discuss specifics, get pre-wedding chop, trial hair
    • find, buy, size wedding rings
    • find, buy, size three wedding suits
    • stockpile alcohol, toppings for dessert buffet
    • do ALL paper crafts: time lines, table numbers, guest wish tree, signage, place cards, etc.
    • organize a rehearsal dinner
    • find, book wedding night hotel 
    • seating arrangements
    • get license from town hall
    • roughly 500 origami cranes
    • wet saw and sand 100 glass bottles for luminaries

    ..... oof.... i think I have to throw up all over my wedding binder now...

     

     
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    TheFutureMcBride    August 2010   Virginia

    I feel like we have everything to get ready:

    • Clay flowers
    • garters
    • clutches - 6
    • boutinerres
    • cake topper
    • centerpieces
    • aisle runner
    • band/dj
    • ceremony music
    • dinner music
    • pick up my dress from alterations
    • figure out how we're getting everything up there
    • pick out the cake
    • order Converse
    • find someone to do my hair
    • make "Thank you" parasol
    • come up with a list of pictures for the photog
    • find some Bugs Bunny argyle socks (if they're made)
    • finish my veil
    • make programs
    • and much, much more
     
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    PaperCrane       Married!

    the veil too! i forgot the veil! and shoes!

     
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    MeMe2010    August 21, 2010  

    My List:

    • Order wedding favors
    • package wedding favors
    • Set seating chart
    • Order escort cards
    • Final meeting/payment with venue
    • final meeting/payment with florist
    • payment to band
    • payment to photographer
    • pick up photo guest book from photographer
    • Marriage license
    • 2nd and 3rd dress fittings
    • tie ribbon around wedding bubbles
    • put together and decorate flower girl wagon
    • Finalize details of wedding shuttle with hotel
    • Call travel agent to finalize hotel transfers

    I'm sure there's a million more things I'm forgetting!

     
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    iggies    March 2011  

    My to-do list seems to be growing, rather than shrinking!

    -reserved signs for church

    -photobooth signs

    -bathroom basket signs

    -buy snacks and water for OOT bags

    -design and assemble programs (i still need to find a style that i like)

    -finish cross-stitching the escort table sign (i'm half way done)

    -buy cords for handfasting ceremony

    -buy frames and print out old family wedding photos

    -finish groomsmen gift purchasing (i decided on monday that i wanted to make them tie envelopes as part of the gift, this took about 2 days to do)

    -escort tag labels for jam jars

    -name tags for tables (design, print and assemble)

    -table seating arrangements

    -marriage license

    -bring all the table numbers (chalkboards on stakes) to the florist

    -assemble kids gift buckets

    i know there are things i'm forgetting. i keep adding onto a giant list when i remember something. i need to start carrying around my little wedding notebook so i can cross things off as i do them!

    tonight is my last dress fitting!

     
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    Gerbera    August 7, 2010   NY

    I'm actually feeling really good.

    Our biggest projects left are the last 35 fan programs and centerpieces.

    The centerpieces we'll most likely finish up this weekend. Need to cut 6 more 1.5Ls then spray paint #s on them all.

    The thing still stressing me out is the BM gifts.

    Other minor stuff:

    • Cake topper
    • Update RD #s
    • Picking up FI's suit today
    • Possibly get fancy fans for immediate family
    • Bro has to book limo & video for us. No biggie.
    • Finish up day of timeline
    • Make thank you signs
    • Decide if I want to do menus
    • make 24 Logan Berry beverages (kid favors)
    • ring bowls
    • confirm everything with vendors couple days before the wedding.
    • Make sure I have a list of instructions to venue!
     
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    jen33    August 7, 2010   Chicago, IL

    @TheFutureMcBride:  We are doing converse too; we went to Shoe Carnival and FYI they had a buy one get one half off sale!  So I think the final cost came down to $33 per pair.

     
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    Arachna       nyc

    aaaaa.....aaaaa.....aaaa.... 1. DON'T PANIC

    Trying to stick to number 1.

    2. seating chart

    3. dress fitting!  (having serious issues with this :(  )

    3. signs

    4. other stuff...

     

     
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    sarahsd    August 14, 2010   San Diego

    It seems like every time someone tells me how many days left I say one number, but then it's actually like 4 days less!  Time if flying!

    My list:

    • DIY Veil
    • Dress Fitting 2 (not until 10 days before wedding...ick)
    • Table Number
    • Place Cards
    • Pay lots of vendors their final installment
    • Ceremony writing!
    • Music
    • Seating Chart
    • Favors: bake cookies and assemble
    • confirm Groom tie
    • groom wedding band
    • Oh yeah...make and order guest book!  Need to get on that one like right now.

    So excited!  

     
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    andy113    August 14, 2010   DC

    starting to really freak out but even my freaking out in on hold because my wedding planning agency is CLOSED THE ENTIRE WEEK!!!!!!!!!!

    - have a few RSVPs who are hemming and hawing. really annoying.

    - need to work on and finalize seating charts, welcome letter for OOT bags

    - need to buy clothes for honeymoon

    - need to make sure final payments are being taken care of

    - need to wrap BM gifts, figure out parent gifts, write out what we're going to say at reception, practice dancing, find a cat sitter for honeymoon and arrange transportation to airport

    - figure out a lot of wedding week logistics!!!!!!!

    EEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE!!!!!

     
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    jisikah    August 8, 2010   CA

    @andy113: closed?! how dare they!!

    I have to figure out a lot of logistical stuff myself... 

    Write thank you cards to all my helpers

    Buy gifts for ushers and flower girl

     
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    Daisylynn    August 22, 2010   Monterey, California

    Whew!  Y'all have some long lists!!!  I just need to get my programs done and make a playlist for our reception and back some cookies for our favors.  Other then that I think we are good to go... if not then oh well too late now!!! :)  As for logisitics I have one more payment to our reception venue, our payment to the officiant, and the payment to the restaurant for our RD.  Good luck everyone!!!!!

     
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    jenbrandner    Aug 7, 2010   Wisconsin

    I'm an early August bride.  With officially a week and a half left, I still need to finish up my veil, write up my ceremony programs, and of course pick up my marriage license!

    Not to mention, I'm moving next week.  Yes, I'm moving the week of my wedding.  And yes, I'm certifiably crazy.  Laughing

     
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    DanielleZara    August 21, 2010   California

    My list:

    • Pick up dressFinalize guestlist by 8/10
    • Ceremony writing
    • Music
    • Pay DJ
    • Get marriage license
    • Make hair appts today
    • Pay venue
    • confirm Groom tie
    • don't stress!!!
     
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    ChiChi    August 20, 2010   Atlanta, GA

    Place Cards

    Seating Chart

    Menu

    Bracelet

    Music Selection

    Marriage license

    Meet officiant

    Grooms wedding band

    Garter

    Pay Vendors final payments

    Confirm with vendors

    Get dress re-altered ($180 payed and not satisfied)

    Write Ceremony

    Bridesmaid Jewelry

    Purchase gifts for wedding party

    Cry-Panic-Breath!!!!!!!!! Sigh

     

     
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    mrs-to-be    August 20, 2010   Netherlands

    2 weeks to go and while I thought I had all planning pretty much in check, my to-do list is a lot longer then I had hoped! :p One of the important things have been crossed off as per yesterday: I had my last dress fitting and was able to take my dress back home, it's now waiting for the big day at my mums. :)

    On top of the list I had just to add a new To Do as well: find a new hairdresser/makeup artist cause the one I had booked just cancelled on me!! /panic Apart from that very stressful addition the list is as follows:

    - FIND A NEW HAIRDRESSER/MAKEUP ARTIST
    - meet with the officiant
    - Grooms attire
    - Grooms wedding watch
    - finalize details at the restaurant
    - music selection
    - some paperwork
    - figure out photolocation for our wedding pics
    - decorations for the house/garden
    - and prolly some other lil things I forget!

     

     

     

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