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August 2012 Brides - What's on your to-do list this month?

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    SportsGal    August 11, 2012   Vancouver, BC

    Hey August 2012 bees!

    Just over 7 months to go! (Depending on your date).   How are things going with you so far?  Updates??

    So what did you accomplish last month for wedding planning?

    What did you want to get done off your "to do" list for this month?

    Last month I..

    • Picked out and ordered my bridesmaid dresses..  Just one out of town bridesmaid has to get measured and call in their order.
    • Bought my guest book picture frame.
    • Gave my Dad a bunch of songs to listen to for the Father/Daughter dance to choose..  I think he likes 2..
    • Ordered more invitation samples.. I am still struggling the DIY vs having it pre-made route.
    • Started getting ideas for the rehearsal dinner..  It seems complicated already..
    • Looked around at tux ideas..  Know which store I am going to use and what colors and style the groomsmen are wearing.. Just haven't booked it yet.
    • Starting to look at invitation wording..  It's tricky.
    • Booked one accommodation and one interisland plane ticket for our honeymoon so far..

    Next month I am going to..

    • Go to a menu tasting at our venue with both sets of parents and DF..  I have an idea of what I would pick but I want their opinions too.
    • Go to the hotel near our venue and talk to them about blocking a set of rooms for us and the details for our OOT guests.
    • Call the dance studio to look into the beginner lessons package DF gave me as a present and see what's involved.  See if we have to start soon.
    • Go to the spa I am thinking of taking the bridesmaids/mothers to before the wedding for a spa treatment..  A way to say thank you and spend some time together.  See what it's like and the costs.
    • Look up sample vow ideas.. If we want to write our own?  Start getting ceremony ideas..
    • Work on the rehearsal dinner idea..  and see what day will work possibly and who should come.. Argh.
    • Try and figure out the invitation thing..  I am not motivated by that though for some reason since I'm picky..  Double argh.
    • Look at different activities/things to do on our honeymoon.. 

    Good luck everyone!

     
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    auggiefrog    August 25, 2012   Wauwatosa, WI

    eck! I just realized that it is February! 

    lets see...   

    * booking an officiant...  (we are talking with a relitive or step relative on my aunts...  but between her busty schedule and my FI being out of the state most of the winter we've been having a hard time hooking up...  she said the last week of Feb was fine for her, so hopefully my FI's work doesn't extend his trip!) 

    *working on invites... (I am DIYing.  Invites on linen fabric which is mostly preped for printing on.  Now onto the pocket folds and finanlizing the wording and design) 

    *I am diying it up this month! My FI is in NC until the end of the month...  So I am going to try to keep myself busy! I found cute purses at DSW on clearance to glam up for my Jr BM's and FG.  I have shoe clips to make, banners, kids activity books and I'm sure I will come up with more!

     
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    FutureMsVW    August 4, 2012  

    we are:

    -having a tasting at our venue!

    -meeting with our decor/flower people together to figure out our "look"

    -going shoe shopping with the bridesmaids

    -meeting with an invitation company here in my town

     

    I think that is all I can think of for now!

     
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    vreelans    August 11, 2012   minneapolis, mn

    @SportsGal:  date twin!

     
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    vreelans    August 11, 2012   minneapolis, mn

    everything that we have left i wish to get done before feburary is over!

    - get our invite wording decided & send it to our designers

    - book the videographer we fell in love with before someone else snatches him for our date!

    - make a stop into heimes habadashery where the men are getting their suits from to figure out what the next step is.. measurements, pricing etc for our groomsmen. colors picked tho!

    - decide which company we want to rent our linens from

    - finally figure out who we would like to use for cakes! i cant bear to go to any more tastings, i wish id find someone already and just be like "YES! WE NEED YOU!"

    - shoes for my dress

    && really thats all there is left! eeeep!

     
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    Melanie11    August 25, 2012   Los Angeles, CA

    Last month:

    -Ordered and received my invites

    -Started solidifying my decor and DIY plans and started shopping around for supplies for escort cards, centerpieces, table numbers, etc.

    -Picked up my dress (today!)

    -Started shopping for (and ordered a few) bridesmaid gifts

    -Started browsing for registry items

     

    This month:

    -More shopping for decor and DIY materials, get started on some of the projects (probably the escort cards and card box first)

    -Call bakery to get things rolling with the cake plans

    -Work on building the wedding website

    -Contact hotels to inquire about blocking some guest rooms

    -Start collecting guest addresses for the invitations

    -Make second deposit to venue (that one's no fun...)

    -Pester FI about menswear plans (whoops, how'd that one get in there...)

     

     
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    Missido    August 4, 2012   Ontario, Canada

    This month we have/will:

    - booked our florist (just signed our contract yesterday!!) Laughing

    - choose our cake design/and baker (we are getting 2 quotes and proposal from 2 different bakers)

    - go shopping with my ladies to choose and order their dresses

    - we meeting with our venue to food tasting and choose our menu

    - once the menu is confirmed, I will finalize the RSVP cards (our invitations are ready, I just need to order them from the designer with the RSVP cards)

    - finish working on our wedding website

    - my dress was suppose to come in in January but it's not here yet Undecided.  Hopefully it will come in in the next week or so.  1) I want to try it on again and 2) I'll need to pay the balance.

     
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    HueysLuda    August 4, 2012   Maryland (DC Metro Area)

    This thread just made me sick! lol! I've realized how much I still need to get done :(

     
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    nataliegrace90    August 4, 2012   Sandpoint, ID

    This month we are finishing up the catering. All the rental items are booked. Talking with the florist this month. Trying to find a good tailor in this tiny town of mine to alter my dress.

     
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    Ballet513    August 4, 2012   New York

    I'm pretty much all planned!! I'm so surprised I'm so on top of things. All of our vendors are booked and deposits paid. 

    This month I have to figure out invite/program/place card designs and order them and we have our cake tasting on 2/11. I also need to schedule a hair trial now that I have my veil and headband.

    We have pre cana next month and I need to get all my church documents in order.

     

     
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    Missido    August 4, 2012   Ontario, Canada

    @HueysLuda:  I understand how you feel.... I went through the "sickness" lol in Dec and Jan.  You can only do one thing at a time Smile If it's getting bad, maybe ask FI, or some close friends to help. 

    For me, the hardest is anything to do with the invitations, guest list, etc.  That's hard work!!!  In close 2nd is the website because I have to translate everything since our wedding is bilingual.  But, only one thing at a time, it will get done.

     
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    Josina    August 25, 2012   Iowa

    I feel on top of things till I read this, lol. Last month I started some DIY projects, 2 chalkboards from old windows, one will be "Our Love Story", not sure on the 2nd one, possibly bar list or on the Guest Book Table. Also made super cute ball jar mugs with chalkboard paint on the front of each so we can write our wedding party's names on them. <3 them.

    I am designing my own invites and have a design started that I'm fairly sure i'll be using... so just need to finish those 100% and then start ordering supplies to put them together, will probably hold off on that till March. I also need to design our programs, a thank you card/mad lib card for each seating, and labels for our jam favors.

    I am going on a 2nd trip looking for bridesmaids dresses on Sunday - having a hard time picking a dress!

    Also have to decide on linens for the tables... have a company I've contacted so need to meet and decide on colors, etc./put a deposit down.

    And then from there, just lots more DIY projects! Shoes & jewelry & gifts for bridal party.

     
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    HueysLuda    August 4, 2012   Maryland (DC Metro Area)

    @Missido:  Yep, I think I will enlist the help of others. With my surgery taking place in Jan. I really lost some ground. I'm working on a plan to take control of everything left to do. One thing at a time :)

     
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    Lyndzo    August 25, 2012   Milton, Ontario

    We've done a lot already, but I'm trying to keep things simple. So this month we are:

    -choosing invitations
    -paying for the church (though it is already reserved)
    -working on centerpieces
    -buying a money/card box

    Bridesmaid fitting is scheduled for March 3rd, even though I have the dress already picked out. They just have to try on and find out their size :)

     
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    kate02121    August 18, 2012  

    This month: 

    • Doing the DIY components of our centerpieces
    • Figuring out how many mason jars we have/still need
    • Deciding if we want to buy wedding insurance and doing it if so
    • Booking our rehearsal dinner
    • Doing the prep for our DIY invitations (making the pocketfolds)
    • Buying shoes (assuming my dress comes in)
    • Buying our rings or at least picking them out
    • Booking the final night of our honeymoon that we don't have booked yet
    • Making our DIY door hangers

    Yea, that's the plan anyway. My excuse when I don't get it done is that it's a short month :)

     
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    apinetree    August 11, 2012   Chicago, IL

    Last month I feel like we got so much of the major stuff out of the way!

    - Chose invitation design.

    - Decided upon a caterer, worked out details.

    - Decided upon a photographer, worked out details.

    - Went to the tailor to get measured for my custom dress, yay!

    - Created our registries

    - Finally got the permit for our venue!

     

    This month we will:

    - Make deposits for caterer and photographer.

    - Recieve proof from printer of our invitation design, and hopefully have them done by the end of the month!

    - Order more of the decor for the reception.

     

    I guess that we're kind of going to have a lull in doing stuff after putting in a lot of work in January and December! I am getting so excited now that all the major decisions (read: major stresses) are out of the way!

     
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    Mrs.H2B    August 4, 2012   Canada

    last month I

    Picked up my dress (yayyyy) 

    finalized invitations (just haven't printed them off yet) 

    ordered bridesmaid dresses

    paid deposit on a limo 

    Discussed vision with florist (gave us a great deal since he's a family friend)

    Discussed vision with decorator and paid deposit

    Finished our wedding website

    bought a crap load of things on Etsy (inviation stamp, photo props, guestbook materials, ring holder, personalized silverware etc) .. haha FI always sneaks a peek and asks... what are you buying now ....

     

    This month I have or plan on

    Found my shoes last night! 

    meeting with the cake person next week

    want to start collecting addresses for invitaiton

    want to start working on memory table numbers that I have envisioned

    taking dance lessons :) We took one 5 lesson session before Christmas, and we're going to do another one this month. So fun!

     

    I know there's probably more.. but I feel pretty on the ball at this point! There are friends of mine getting married before me who don't have half of what I have done.. so all in all, I'm pretty relaxed with everything. 

     

     

     
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    Ice Skate    August 5, 2012  

    Since I wanted to make sure I got exactly the vendors I wanted I booked EVERYTHING major within the first 2 months of being engaged. Because of this we have been very stagnent since November.

     

    • We have to book our honeymoon. We know what we want but just haven't made it happen.
    • We need to pick our menu. Since we are from Chicago but getting married in the mountains in Colorado we don't really get a tasting. We do get a complimentary meal when we visit in April
    • Decide if we are going with my crazy DIY tear - I've been stuck in bed for a week with a concussion with a ton free time. I've made our guest book (mad lib cards), table numbers and programs
    • I'm sure there is other stuff we need to get done but I don't know where to start!
     
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    salmonette    August 18, 2012   York, Maine

    It was a stellar day!  I picked out my wedding dress this morning after a painless bridal store experience and then later found my shoes at TJ Maxx $40.  Navy blue wedges (easier to walk during the outside ceremony!)

     

    Still need to:  Confirm the officient and book; finalize invitations, selecrt musicians for cerenony.  I feel like I am on a wedding role!  May it continue!

     

     
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    Blondee    August 24, 2012  

    So excited, we booked our honeymoon to St. Lucia last night!! We're going for 7 nights 8 days and staying at the Sandals Grande resort.

    Now that the honeymoon is booked, next up is booking a florist (I have an appt next week to meet with one). I thought I wanted silk flowers, but changed my mind. Then we need to pick out a flower girl dress, order wedding bands, figure out tuxes for FI and the groomsmen, and figure out what I want to do for centerpieces.

    After we book a florist, everything else is pretty much done, it's just the little stuff now.

     
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    Celtic_Bride    August 23, 2012   Belfast, N. Ireland (from Toronto Canada)

    I realised today that I have 6months to go and ordered my invites... and sat thinking all day at work what I still had to do! flowers, my information from my church to be sent... and kept thinking I'm missing something.... just hoping it will all come together 

    Think I am going to make all the calls on saturday to confirm the caterer, club, mes outfits.... oh it is all coming fast...Oh the rings and city hall... oh boy... CHECKLIST!!

     
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    WestieGirl    August 18, 2012   DC/MD/VA

    We booked the officiant last week.  Next up is makeup artist and I'm about to start ordering samples for the invites I want to (gulp) design. We priced out rings two weeks ago and will be back after we get our tax refunds to put the deposits down.

    I want to start working on our music selections and ask FI what he plans on wearing!

     
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    SportsGal    August 11, 2012   Vancouver, BC

    Last month was a good month for me..

    • Went to the menu tasting at our venue and wasn’t totally impressed with the new chef unfortunately.. The food was decent but no “wow” factor.  I’ll have to see what happens, something to keep an eye out..
    • We started dance lessons!  Did our first lesson and have 12 more to go lol.
    • Reserved the groomsmen’s tuxes finally.  They need to go in and get fitted.
    • Reserved a block of rooms at the hotel near our venue so that’s done..  We get the meeting room for free so we are thinking of maybe having an after party there.
    • Been talking to a limo company, will probably put a deposit down soon.
    • E-mailed the invitation wording I came up with to the Mothers and they didn’t totally like what I made..  So still working on it..
    • Bought my garter from Etsy, just need to pick it up from the post office.
    • Booked the car rentals for our honeymoon

     

    This month I am going to..

    • Going to figure out my invitations and order them..  Going to use someone to make them for me so I am trying to figure out exactly how I want them to look.
    • Then figure out my invitation wording since the place needs to know it so they can print them.  So invitations are my #1 thing this month.
    • Go for a cookie tasting since I think that’s what we will do for favors.
    • My dress came in!  But if I want to use the alteration services of my wedding store I have to do my first fitting within 2 weeks?  Seems odd but oh well..So I am going next week to pay it off and get fitted..
    • I think the honeymoon is planned now, just need to keep an eye on the prices and hopefully book the hotels/plane tickets soon..  The prices aren’t in my favor right now still though..
    • I think we are going to do the “wine box ceremony” during our ceremony so I am looking at buying it vs DIY..
     
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    Missido    August 4, 2012   Ontario, Canada

    For March:

    - I have ordered the invitations yesterday. Woooo!

    - The last of my 5 bridesmaids has chosen her dress.  All bridesmaids dresses = ORDERED.

    - We are finalizing our registries next weekend.

    - I am working on our website.

    - Choosing suits/tuxes for guys.

     
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    auggiefrog    August 25, 2012   Wauwatosa, WI

    For march:

    Finish invitations! ~ probably going to print the main invite later this week

    Get suits ordered

    DIY's- frames to paint, glasses to color, kids activity books

    start dieting again!  Im afraid that I gained back all the weight that I lost! 

     

     
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    SouthernCJ    August 4, 2012   Mississippi, wedding in Michigan

    For March my big tasks were to order the tuxes and invitations. Tuxes are done, now I'm just working on nailing down my wedding timeline so I can get the invites ordered with right times on them!

    I don't use the knot for much, but I do like the checklist they have. I have been following it to the letter so hopefully I am not forgetting anything!

     
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    Blondee    August 24, 2012  

    @SouthernCJ:  I use The Knot just for their checklist, too! It seems the most comprehensive. I have a wedding binder at home that I used to keep my contracts and ideas in, but it seems like the checklist in it is missing a lot.

     

     
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    Blondee    August 24, 2012  

    This month I am:

    -Calling bridal salon about tuxes and get FI and groomsmen fitted.

    -Make sure I have collected everyone's address.

    -Look for flower girl dress and sash.

    -Work on addressing invitations (I'm doing this all by hand, UGH, I don't know what I was thinking..)

    -Going to menu tasting at our venue.

    I'm sure I'm forgetting more to do... but this is what I can think of right now. I'm not sure how much I'll get done, though. Between work and nursing school, I have been really busy. I graduate in 2 months, so my focus is more on school right now.

     
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    Lyndzo    August 25, 2012   Milton, Ontario

    I got a lot done this last month. Everything is pretty much done, just have to wait for things to come in. Our flowers won't arrive until July but other than that our centerpieces are done.

    We ordered chair covers for the church. Bridesmaids are taken care of. Bought our invitations, just need to print and send :)

     
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    NaraG    August 18, 2012   London, United Kingdom

    By the end of March I want to have:

    Sent out invites - done!!

    Booked a photographer - we're in final conversations with one.

    Booked hair -almost complete

    At least start looking at menus, florist, decorations and cake

    Lose some weight so I can fit in to my dress, eek!!!

     

     
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    NaraG    August 18, 2012   London, United Kingdom

    (Reviving thread)

    Oh dear, I haven't done everything on my March 'to do' list, and it's past the end of April... Eeeek!!!

    We have booked a photographer, florist and DJ.

    New to do list for May:
    Decorations, cake, menus, make up, honeymoon!!

    Oh, and lose a little weight of course...

    What are you all up to?

     
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    Lyndzo    August 25, 2012   Milton, Ontario

    I think I'm doing well, until I see my list LOL

    -waiting for my ring, flowers and dress to arrive (all ordered, just have to endure the wait)
    -print and mail invitations
    -create seating chart
    -marriage license
    -hair/makeup trial (this Friday)
    -book honeymoon

    Can't believe it's less than 4 months away. I am so excited!

     

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