Post # 1
So I have a dilemma, my aunt is being such a freaking b*#ch. She keeps saying mean things to other family members about my wedding like why am I having a big wedding when I am already married, and saying how my husband and I should spend th money we are spending on the wedding for my bills, and children as if we are doing bad or something. My mom says don’t send her an invite because she is just so negative. My aunt even feels as if my mom shouldn’t help with my wedding purchases either. I just don’t know what to do. My grandmother says she is just upset, I think she is jealous. Should I send her invite or not ause I don’t want her bringing my guest down.
Post # 3
Ignore her and do not send her an invite.
Post # 4
It’s rude of her to talk behind your back but she is entitled to her opinion. If you are in serious debt and have bills to pay it is silly for you to be wasting money on a vow renewal when you are already married. I can understand why she disapproves. But it’s your money (except for the part your mom is apparently pitching in) so do what you want. Since your aunt clearly disapproves don’t invite her.
Post # 5
I wouldn’t invite her. It’s a shame she can’t be happy for you and feels the need to criticize.She sounds like an unhappy person in general. Perhaps limit your contact with her, and let others know you don’t need to know what she is saying about you and your choices.
Post # 6
Thanks everyone for the advice. I have been trying to ignore the comments she has made, but it’s hard to avoid. My finances are good, and she just assuming what she wants, but she isn’t invited.