(Closed) Aunt jumping the gun

posted 9 years ago in Family
Post # 3
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898 posts
Busy bee

I have a pretty strict policy of not telling people much until I’m decided…in fear of something happening like your situation.

If you’ve decided not to have flower girls, just tell them. If they’re upset, oh well, you never specifically told them it was decided. Are the dresses too formal to just wear as guests to your wedding? Can they be returned?

Her loss, she’s the one who jumped the gun. Just be honest with them.

Post # 5
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231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Bean, do you think you’ll have a ringbearer?  If so, I hope the ringbearer situation is less stressful! 

Post # 7
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231 posts
Helper bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

Awh, well that sounds perfect!  We’re in the opposite situation with several flowergirl options & the kids are close to me & my fiance.  I have some second cousins who could be ringbearers, but we don’t really know them.  Good thing there’s still so much time to plan!

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