- 3 years ago
One of my best friends and her FI recently went on a trip with me and my FI. We split a hotel room for the weekend (all 4 of us), and after we got there, they did sexual things for about an hour in a bed that was two feet away from us. Granted, they tried to be quiet, but you can still hear everything that close to someone and I could not get to sleep. (Not sure if they actually had full on sex.)
Anyway, I confronted her about it the next day because I didnt want it to happen again with us in the room. Offered to give her and her FI some “alone time” in the room if they wanted because I know they dont see each other much. She flat out denied it and adamantly lied to us about it. FI thinks she’s embarrassed but I thought we were close enough where she’d at least admit it, apologize, and we’d prob laugh about it.
Now I dont know what to think..Im more upset about the lie then anything else. She got this funny expression on her face when I confronted her–like this huge smile– and stumbled around saying first, her and her FI slept back to back because they’d been in a fight, and she slept straight through the night, and then “OH MY GOSH I cant believe YOUD think that about ME.” Then, told me she cried in the shower because she felt judged for something she “didnt do.” And kept insisting I say I believer her.
FI said I shouldnt have confronted her, but we were staying in the same room again that night and its AWKWARD. I thought setting boundaries would be perfectly acceptable in this case. Thoughts??