(Closed) Awkward/frustrating/funny

posted 5 years ago in Waiting
Post # 3
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340 posts
Helper bee

That is so amazing that his family loves you! I bet an engagement is just around the corner 🙂

Post # 4
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Blushing bee

That’s awesome that they say those things.

Recently (ever since my SO mentioned to his mom that we’ve looked at rings and they went together looking too), she’ll introduce me as future daughter in law and say things like she loves me and how cute we are.

Bu you’re right, when they do say those things it is bittersweet. I love hearing the acceptance from his family, but I just want it to be official! I want to finally call my boyfriend of 9 years, my fiance and husband!!

Post # 5
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Honey bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

@Pinknyy:  I know how you feel!  My SO’s sister is always telling me she loves me and that she’s excited that we’re going to be family soon!

Post # 6
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I know how this feels well too good LOL

My SO’s sisters call me sis, One when speaks to me and askes me about my SO, calls him my hubby.

My SO’s kids tell me they love me and call me step mom or even sometimes mom. So what is the freaking hold up ! LOL

 

Post # 8
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: October 2013

I hear you! My SO’s dad calls me his DIL ..My SO’s sister call me more than they call him..and his aunts and uncles introuduce me as their niece…

 

 hmm just make it OFFICAL! LOL

Post # 10
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: September 2014

@Pinknyy:  Must be…All the guys are strapped for cash. Women out-earn men now and have more education. The guys are just struggling to put food on the table. Rent is high. I mean, damn, if I would save 30 bucks from every paycheck I would have been able to buy MYSELF my dream ring…1 year ago…But I digress. things are though in NYC…But the SO and I pay our rent on time…so thats good.

Post # 11
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Newbee

I don’t really get that from my boyfriend’s family (it’s really just his parents).  Marriage has only come up with his mom once, about two years ago, and she was really catty about it.  I know she loves me, but she seems really reluctant about it.  I don’t know what his dad thinks–he’s only spoken one sentence to me the entire ten years that his son and I have been together.

What I hate, though, is co-workers.  My co-workers know how long we’ve been together and they keep trying to get me to break up with him because of it.  They swear that he’s taking me for granted, etc.  I actually had someone try to fix me up with someone else WHILE I’m still dating my boyfriend!

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