Baby Fever

posted 3 years ago in Babies
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: April 2012 - Chateau Briand

awww I understand! the good thing is it sounds like you’re well aware that this wouldn’t be good timing for a second child, it’s just something you’re super excited about! Just keep focusing on how awesome it’ll be to be pregnant with your second child once everything is in order so you’re not worrying about all those other things AND your first daughter is old enough to be excited about getting a baby brother or sister 🙂

Post # 5
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: November 2011

@Daenaria727:  I totally understand! Having more kids right now would be a TERRIBLE idea for us (seriously… I just had twins 4 months ago), but I inexplicably feel totally ready to try for number 3. If you’re really not wanting more in theory, stay the course and hold off, I say! My brother and SIL have accidental ‘Irish twins’ (two singletons born within a year), and it is super hard going for them now that their kids are 2 and 3. They said that it’s hard when the oldest is around 3 because they’re totally mobile and getting into everything right when their younger sibling is hitting the terrible twos. Watching those two over Christmas has been a good reality check of how my life would look (though maybe worse with twins!) if I acted on the impulse.  Feel terrible for my brother and SIL… watching their life is like watching an experiment in terror, lol. I love my nephew and niece, but they are insanely active and destructive.

Still… I understand. Sigh. What on earth is with all the hormones saying to try again at such a bad time??

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