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    flamingred    June 19, 2010  

    Yay! She was exactly one week past her due date and I was going crazy. She was due on Tuesday, 3/15(which came and went much to my dismay)  I had an induction scheduled for Thursday, 3/24 which wasn't sitting well with me but whatever all I could do was eat spicy food, wiggle a pregnant leg at my husband, and hope for the best.

    My water broke on Monday 3/21 at 11AM and we headed to the hospital. I thought that when your water broke that birth was like, right around the corner but I ended up having to be induced because they were worried about an infection since the water broke and they had already checked my cervix a bunch of times (still at 1.5cm) so I was induced about about 1AM. I had an epidural which was great. I was in labor for 16 hours so I just watched tv, played of facebook, read magazines, and slept. My husband, mom, and best friend were in the room with me the whole time so they took turnes taking naps and hanging out. If you can have a few people in the room with you I reccommend it!

    All of a sudden at around 2:45PM I started to kind of feel the contractions and a lot of pressure. I told the nurse I could feel "things" but she didn't really seem worried so I didn't worry. I've (obviously) never had a baby so I figured it was normal. They came in and checked me and I was at an 8, and the midwife said they would be back in 2 hours and I would be ready. Like 5 minutes later I felt EVERYTHING and I looked at my mom and I was like OMG I HAVE TO PUSH OR SOMETHING and I'm hitting the buttion for more epidoral but NOTHING was happening.

    In the meantime my mom called for the nurse and she was like "SHE'S READY!" The hospital I delivered at is a teaching hospital so in came like 500 people (not really but everyone had a student so it was like eight people, plus two nurses in training asked me if they could stay and watch and I was like "sure, whatever" Plus my husband, my mom, and bff.

    So anyway at this point I realize that I have no epidural and everyone is getting in postition for me to push and I'm like "OMFG I am going to feel this" and I started to panic. This is something I think a person shouls be mentally prepared for and I really wasn't. Luckily, I took some deep breaths and thought to myself that if I panicked it was going to take much longer so I made the decision to go with it. Screaming to fix the epidural at this point didn't seem like it would change the situation because she was coming. So I just can't really explain where I went mentally but I pushed for about a half hour, screamed my face off, yelled at my midwife to knock me out with gas or something because I couldn't do it. She was like "FLAMING RED, LOOK AT ME! YOU CAN DO IT AND YOU WILL DO IT" and I was like "OMG okay!" and I pushed and pushed, and everyone in the room was cheering, my husband was a seriously amazing coach and I think was shaking and sweating more then me. All of a sudden out she came and I forgot everything that had happend.

    I had zero intentions to breastfeed, but as soon as they put her to my chest when she came out she was rooting around so I gave her my boob and she latched right away! I couldn't believe it! 

    I was so suprised at how her birth turned out-but in a way I'm glad it happend the way it did. My mom was super pissed about the epidural mishap, and yes someone screwed up on that so I may write a letter or something, but I am not like suffering mentally or anything. I kind of think I'm awesome! LOL!

     
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    PrncssDva    October 16, 2010   Memphis, TN

    COngrats!!! It sucks that the epidural didn't work for you, but YOU DID IT!!

     
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    Jenn23    April 17, 2010   Philly suburbs

    Yay!!!!!! Congrats!!!! What an amazing story. I can only imagine your face when they got ready for you to push and you knew you were going to feel it!! But you did it!!!! What a great story. It sounds like the delivery went just fine. Hope you and your baby are doing well and can't wait to see pics!

     
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    Mrs Sarah McK    October 10, 2010   Harrisburg, PA

    Congratulations!

    I watched The Business of Being Born the other night, and Ricki said it's like hitting a wall...you give into the pain, because you can't stop. Mad props to you!

    Pictures!

     
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    finnaroo    August 7, 2010   DC (living in nyc now)

    congratulations!!

     
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    Congrats, sounds like you were a champ!  Guess it's at least good the epidural worked for awhile.

    Hope you're both getting some sleep and good to hear the breast feeding went smoothly for you.

     
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    NDBee    March 10, 2012  

    Congratulations! While it's not what you were expecting, you seemed to have rocked right on through it! 

    I do agree with your idea of writing a letter to let them know the (rather big) mistake. You don't want to pay for meds you didn't get, and you can save another mama the same experience...not everyone may handle it as well as you did! :-)

     
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    MrsMaine    May 29, 2011   Boston, MA

    Yay! Congrats! What's her name?

     
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    mightywombat    June 25, 2011   Massachusetts

    Congratulations!!!!!

     
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    Mrs Moose    August 15, 2009  

    Aww, congratulations! Glad she is here, and wishing you the best over the next few weeks!

     
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    octobermom    November 19, 2009  

    Congrats!

     
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    AudzinLuv    September 2012   Augusta, GA

    Awwwwwww, congratulations!  What a wonderful & exciting time for you and your new family, and thanks for bringing back memories of my own childbirth experiences. :)

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Congrats!  Even though it sounds like it didn't go quite as you might have planned, it seems like all in all it was a pretty smooth and (obviously) successful birth.

     
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    flamingred    June 19, 2010  

    @MrsMaine: Her name is Georgia. She looks like a little peach!

     
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    SoontobeMrsA    June 2012   MA/NH line

    Congrats :)

     
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    babylou    October 15, 2011  

    Congratulations! Did you have any medicine at all? Huge kudos to you if you went all natural! I've never had a baby, so I'm confused what you mean by you were "pushing the button for more epidural." I thought an epidural was the shot some women get in their spines?

     
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    babylou    October 15, 2011  

    By the way, I LOVE the name Georgia. :)

     
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    MrsMaine    May 29, 2011   Boston, MA

    @flamingred: Aww how perfect! Great name!!

     
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    Mrs. DG    July 18, 2009   Seattle/Tahoe

    Congratulations!  What a story :)

    Epidurals are by no means guaranteed.  Seems like it worked as expected for some time and then stopped working.  It's just one of those things... Like mine was more on one side than the other.  Unfortunately it's not an exact science, they just flush medicine around the spinal cord... and it does what it's going to do.

    I'm glad you made it though and you must feel so proud of yourself that you were able to do it naturally!!!

    Pics please!

     
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    smyley    May 2010  

    Congratulations and stats ,please! (and pictures too)

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    Congrats!!! I can't wait to see pictures of little Georgia. :) it sounds like you did a great job, even though things didn't go exactly how you were expecting!

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    bluespurrs    August 7, 2009   South-central PA, USA, Earth

    Congrats! "In my day" natural births were all the rage so I had absolutely NOTHING for the pain. Glad all turned out well.

     
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    firsttimemom    December 18, 2010  

    Congratulations! I'm going natural and so I'm glad to hear that your experience wasn't horrifying for the time you were without the medication.

     
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    Lindsay05    August 21, 2010   Canada

    LMAO @ "in walked 500 people". That is too funny and I had a great mental picture! Congrats on the baby!!!woohoo!

     
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    MsMamaBear       Atlanta

    Congrats!!

     
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    camrie    September 5, 2010   Louisville

    Yea!! Congrats! Love the name!

     
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    PitBulLover    August 21, 2010  

    Wow what an amazing story! Congratulations Momma!!!

     
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    Lozza    September 1, 2007  

    Eeeee!! Congratulations on your little girl! (I'm also from Georgia and miss it TERRIBLY so I definitely love the name) Thank you for the update!

     
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    FallLove    May 1, 2010  

    Congratulations!!! Thanks for sharing your story!!

     
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    stephanie63087    May 14, 2011   Fort Wayne, Indiana

    hehe your story made me laugh!! good for you!!! and congrats on your little one!!!

     
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    rachaelrobin    January 16, 2011   Philadelphia

    congrats! hope you georgia and your family are doing well!

     
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    bellenga    July 31, 2010   Georgia

    Congrats and sweet birth story!  Let's see lil' flamingred!  Wishing you all a lifetime of happiness!

    My bff had to do it naturally too.  And it was rough.  I was myself, a bit freaked out when I had to have a c section (emergency) because I was scared to death my epidural wouldn't work and I honestly did not want to be awake during the c section, but it turned out fine.

     
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    flamingred    June 19, 2010  

    @babylou: well, i wasn't exactly sure how it worked either but  they insert a needle in your back (spine?) with a catheter and then they take out the needle and leave the the catheter.The medication is run through an IV. There is a little control that you can press when you want more medication to run through the IV but mine wasn't working, or the IV bag was empty or something by the time I had to push. blah.

     
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    Sulli301    June 26, 2010   Michigan

    congratulations!!!!! :)

     
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    Ms Mini    July 17, 2010   Medicine Hat, AB

    Congratulations!

     
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    Congratulations!! :)

     
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    franks.katie    April 23, 2011   Spring, TX (DW in Destin, FL)

    Congrats!!! 

     
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    realeastcoaster    July 11, 2009   Canada

    Congratulations and thanks for sharing your story! Can't wait to see pictures!

     
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    MrsE.ToBe    October 1, 2011   MA

    congrats!

     
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    Lillindy    September 2008   Bay Area, CA

    Congrats!  Thanks for sharing your birth story, I plan to get an epidural so I'm going to try to remember to mentally prepare myself in case it stops working like yours so thank you!

     

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