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    rachiecakes    January 23, 2011   Boston

    When I left the 'Bee a few weeks ago I had been on bedrest since before Thanksgiving because I was showing signs of pre-e: high blood pressure, extreme swelling, low platelets. I had made it to my due date 12/15 and my OB gave me my induction date 12/16 6pm. I spent that day shopping and treating myself to lunch. Since I had been on bedrest for so long I couldn't handle sitting at home worrying about being induced all day. I distracted myself by making some final hospital purchases (new pajamas and socks) and getting a good lunch aka last meal, even though I couldn't eat it because I was so nervous. 

    6pm came along and I checked in at Labor and Delivery. I got my room and they inserted Cervidil. It hurt just like all the cervical checks did because I was dilated at 1cm. Only 1cm! ugh... I told DH he could go home because all I was going to do was watch TV in bed and wait for something to happen. We live a mile from the hospital and have pets. No use in him sitting around too when he could take care of things at home and get some rest. 

    I tossed and turned all through the night, couldn't get comfortable on that hard bed, still nervous about what was to come. Just before 5am I went to lay on my left side and felt a POP followed by a trickle. Yep, my water broke. I paged the nurse and she came in to confirm with a test strip. I called DH and before he even made it to the hospital I was having crazy contractions - one on top of another. I could hardly speak to my OB without feeling like I was going cross-eyed and stuttering. At 10am they were going to start me on Pitocin to move things along. When that happened they also gave me a narcotic (still not sure what it was, I was in such a state) that put me to sleep. Good thing, too, because it was going to be a LONG day. 

    At 1pm I was still in pain so I got the epidural. After that it was pretty smooth sailing. I could rest. But I also could still feel the contractions. At 6pm 12/17 I was good to push. I started pushing with each contraction until they told me they could see his hair/head. At this point I was told he was sunny side up and stuck under my pubic bone. I could see everyone looking at each other and there was talk of a csection. The OB (who at this point was not my OB because it was the next day and shifts had changed) told me to prepare for a csection because with his position it was going to be really hard to push him out. I had developed a fever and they had started me on antibiotics. I knew I could push him out. The OB used the vacuum to get him out. One try it slid off his head because of all his hair! They said this out loud and DH saw the Dr. get out the scissors and made a comment about the baby getting a haircut. Um, nope. That would be the mediolateral episiotomy! Yikes! 

    Once DS was out there were about 3 more doctors in the room immediately. They whisked him away so fast - didn't even ask DH to cut the cord - I knew something was going on, so I told DH to go with them if he could. 

    He was born at 8:17pm on 12/17, 8lbs 2oz - 21.5"

    My doctor spent a good 40 minutes stitching me back up and DH came back in the room with the pediatrician. DS's original Apgar score was 2, he had a subdural hematoma from the vaccum and pneumothorax (doctor speak for collapsed lung - I didn't know that's what that meant until after we left the hospital! I think I would've jumped off the table then and there if I did!). The good news was that they were giving him oxygen and his second Apgar was 8. So he was responding well in the Level 2 nursery. (Our hospital didn't have a NICU and Level 2 nursery was the special care unit). 

    The hospital was rough. I was a mess. We were both on antibiotic IV's for 48 hours because of the fever. He was hooked up to all these monitors. Any visitors couldn't see the baby. I was incredibly swollen in the face from the pushing, the fluids and my crazy high blood pressure that still after the birth didn't go down for days. From the subural hematoma (big blood bubble on the back of the head from the vacuum), DS had developed jaundice. I was told when the blood reabsorbs into the body it's hard on his little organs to process, so he'd be jaundice for a while. 

    It's been two weeks and he's doing great! Little noggin' has healed, he's eating like a champ (um.. sometimes nursing for over an hour! ouch!), getting bigger by the second it seems. We're still working out the whole sleeping schedule, lol... but he's absolutely perfect. I love him so much. Right now he's staring at my like, "mom get off the computer and feed me again!" 

    Here's some photos of the little fella: 

    Babycakes' Birth Story :  wedding birth story epidural pitocin cervidil induced labor Joel

    Babycakes' Birth Story :  wedding birth story epidural pitocin cervidil induced labor IMG 0280

    (sorry huge photos!) 

     
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    rachiecakes    January 23, 2011   Boston

    holy wow that's a novel and a half! apologies Innocent

     
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    amnystik    April 9, 2011   Texas

    YAY! He's so cute!!!!!!!!!!! =D

     
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    MrsStrz    November 6, 2010  

    Ahh congratulations! He's a doll & I'm so glad you avoided a c-section! Great job, Momma! :)

     
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    Lolasmomma    April 15, 2011   Morrisville, NC

    I'm glad to hear that he is here!  I really hope your swelling has went down!

     
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    Awww little man! Sounds like you worked hard for this baby! But so worth it!

     
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    Congratulations!  You did a great job :)

     
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    Ms Mini    July 17, 2010   Medicine Hat, AB

    Congratulations! I am glad that despite a rough labour and delivery you guys are doing well! He doesn't even look too jaundiced in his pictures!

     
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    AudzinLuv    September 2012   Augusta, GA

    Congratulations!  I enjoyed reading every word, took me back to when my babies were being born, lol.  Sounds like you had quite an experience with some scary parts, but he is absolutely beautiful, and I'm so glad everyone is healthy & happy. :)

     
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    Ms Hedgehog    July 10, 2011   Dallas/ Ft Worth TX

    He is so adorable! Congratulations!

     
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    MarryMeTiffany    November 30, 2011   Illinois

    OMG he is so adorable

     
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    gogogiraffes    June 2, 2012   Richmond, Virginia

    BABIES! I love reading birth stories. Contrats on the baby. Hope down there is feeling better. And baby is adorable!

     
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    Marriedandlovingit    June 18, 2011  

    Thanks for sharing! He's a handsome little boy!

     
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    BoiledPNut    April 2012  

    He's adorable!  I'm glad you are both doing well.  Congratulations!

     
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    78h2o    October 8, 2011   MD (wedding was in OR)

    Congratulations! He's gorgeous!

     
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    Mrs.KMM    July 17, 2010   Atlanta, GA (wedding in Indianapolis, IN)

    Man - sounds like you had quite the ordeal getting him into this world!  He is so adorable!  Congratulations!

     
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    Awwww.....what a cute little man you have!  congratulations!

     
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    bells    June 26, 2011  

    Congrats!!

     
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    soyjoy222    June 1, 2012   PA

    oh my goodness. he is so beautiful!! and congrats to you and your DH. aaaand congrats to you for making it through that tough labor!

     
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    Mrs. Spring    May 10, 2009   California

    I'm sorry you had so many complications, but glad to hear that everything turned out ok.  :)  Congrats on delivering a beautiful son!

     
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    Heatherloveskenny    June 4, 2011  

    He is gorgeous!!! I read your post right before I fell asleep and I had a dream that I had a baby boy who look just as precious as your little guy (lol, okay I'm sure that sounds weird but I can't control my pregnant dreams!)

     
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    hisgoosiegirl    June 18, 2011  

    Holy crap! Glad you and the little fella are doing well now! Sounds like quite the un-fun ride!

     
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    Eva Peron    November 2011  

    Labor is hard work, congratulations MOM!!!

    Your little snugglecakes is soo cute! So thankful everything has been smoothsailing ;)

     
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    FutureMrsZapper    October 30, 2010   NC/ FL

    He's adorable! Congrats on his arrival! Happy to hear it all ended well!

     
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    winniewolf    October 2009  

    Wow, tough labor!

    He is precious!

     
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    MissPumpkinPie    October 13, 2012   Jersey Shore

    Congratulations!  He's so handsome.  I'm sorry you two had such a rough start.  Glad to hear you're both okay though. (hugs)

     
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    lindsey_k_16    June 9, 2012   Muskegon, MI

    He's perfect! I am glad things turned out well for you!

     
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    Running Elley    June 19, 2011   Fresno, CA

    Ahhhh he is absolutely precious!!! Congrats, mama!

     
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    Kemma    February 5, 2011   New Zealand

    Beautiful!  He looks just so peaceful in your first photo :-)

     
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    BabyBoecksMom    April 23, 2011   Spring, TX (DW in Destin, FL)

    Breathtaking!  You've got a heartbreaker on your hands ;-)

     

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