(Closed) Bachelor Parties?

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

Everyone is entitled to their own opinion and you are not wrong.

Personally I could care less if my FI went to a strip club.  I know it would never be his idea to go to one and if he did it would be with a whole group of friends.  So for my FI it would be more like hanging out with the guys rather than going to watch naked chicks.

Post # 4
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: August 2010

There have been many many posts on this…I think the bottom line is, everyone feels differently about it, but if you have a problem with it, then it’s important that your FI listens to your concerns and that you guys respect each other’s opinions.

Personally, I am totally fine with strip clubs and would not have a problem with FI visiting one.

Post # 6
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I don’t particularly care.  Did they shower naked or with clothes on?  I’ve never heard of that going down..

Post # 7
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Sugar bee

Luckily my Fiance has a stronger distaste of them than me! Sorry, I can’t offer more advice.  On one hand one needs to trust on the other hand, there needs to be respect for the opposite sex!

Post # 8
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: June 2009

ok the shower and whipping is weird!!!! and painful. welts, hello?!?! Ow!!!!

Post # 9
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: May 2011

I just asked FI if he’s ever heard of showering and REALLY? You can just shower these women down? That’s so creeptastic.

Post # 11
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Bee Keeper
  • Wedding: February 2010

i told my husband i’m fine with a strip club as long as there’s no lap dance. he knew his friends wouldn’t go for that and would buy him lap dances, so he just decided not to go at all.

Post # 12
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Newbee
  • Wedding: August 2010

Yeah, I thought I was fine with it.  But I should have been clear with my fiancé about what I was expecting which is hanging out there, mabe 2-3 lapdances with no contact and then move to another regular bar.  Turns out his friends paid for him to get 12 lapdances in 2h until he was too drunk they had to get him home.

This was Saturday.  I can command him for telling me the truth when he woke up at 10am yesterday.  But after hearing that he had at least 12 girls stripping for him (it might be more, they didn’t count)… I cried, I yelled, he yelled.  We fought like we never fought before.  I told him I thought having so many girls naked under his nose was disrespectful to me and our relationship.  He said I never said I did not want him to do this.  I said he should have realised 12 lapdances is a lot and put a stop to it earlier.  He said he would have if he had known I’d be so hurt by it, that he didn’t care about where he was, he was just having fun with the boys.

Today, I’m sad and disappointed, and I guess he feels the same way.  There’s a bad vibe in our relationship for now.  It’s a big mess.  Totally not where I wanted us to be 19 days before our wedding.

So my advice is talk with your fiancé about what you expect him to do or not.  I always thought I was so cool with the whole concept of strip clubs!

Post # 13
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Buzzing bee
  • Wedding: September 2010

My fiance just had his bachelor party this past weekend on the Canadian side of Niagara Falls. His guys took him to strip clubs on both Friday and Saturday night. The one on Friday brought him up onstage, where the dancers whipped him with his own belt and poured ice water down his pants. Super erotic – heh 🙂 The one on Saturday was so crowded that they left early. Honestly, it seems like bachelor party strip clubs are more for the groom’s friends.

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