- 4 years ago
- Wedding: September 2013
Hi bees, just wondering who your FI’s invited to their bachelor party. My FI is having two days for his party (golf/baseball game going out). The problem is FI wants to invite his groomsmen, 3 of our ushers and then leave out one of the ushers. So basically everyone except my one good friend we’ll call him mike. Well mike is best friends with two of the other ushers so I think it would be very mean to leave him out. Also, the plans for the party have been discussed in front of him. My question is don’t people usually include everyone in the wedding? I know it’s really none of my business who he invites but his best man asked me to help him and asked for an invite list. Also, FI won’t give a reason for not inviting mike except he “thinks he is self centered and talks about himself and his job too much.” At the end of the day it’s his party, but I would hate to hurt someone’s feelings. Thanks for any advice!