Bachelor party question – FI is planning his friend's

posted 3 years ago in Parties
  • poll: Is having a "destination" bachelor party rude if not everyone can come?
    YES! The party is meant for all the groomsmen and you should try to accommodate everyone : (7 votes)
    37 %
    NO! The party is about what the groom would want to do : (10 votes)
    53 %
    Depends... : (2 votes)
    11 %
  • Post # 3
    9412 posts
    Buzzing Beekeeper

    I think no matter what there will be people who can’t/don’t want to go. Even if they went to a local bar, the same issue of time away from school, age, and cash flow exist. 

    I do think it’s nice your FI is planning something the groom will enjoy. It would be nice if everyone could come but it’s more important that the folks who will be there have fun. 

    That’s just me though 🙂 

    Post # 4
    5968 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: September 2017

    @penguinbee:  The bachelor party is about what the groom would most want to do with his buddies. I think if this is the best idea and the groom will be excited than that’s all that matters. There is always the possibility that people can’t come to things like this. I say keep up with the original plan like your FI is going to do 🙂

    Post # 5
    349 posts
    Helper bee

    Shoot, I mis-read your poll. I think as long as the groom is okay that not everyone can make it, then it’s fine!

    Post # 6
    22124 posts
    Honey Beekeeper
    • Wedding: July 2011

    I think it’s really up to the groom. Would he rather go to the auto show, or would he rather have all of the guys at the party? I agree that it may be tough to get all of the guys free all at once no matter what the plan is. All of my bridesmaids would have ideally been able to make my bachelorette party, but one was unable because she was out of town for the whole summer and only coming into town for my wedding.

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