(Closed) Bachelor/Bachelorette Parties

posted 7 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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503 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: July 2010

They SHOULD but (especially if the BM and GM are young) they might not be aware of this. You might want to casually bring it up before or maybe keep some cash at hand for that night.

Post # 4
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1260 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: June 2010

It would be nice if they did, but it should not be an expectation. I had my bachelorette last night – similar to you, staying in hotel, went out for dinner, then off to the bar. My girls paid for dinner for me, and bought me a few drinks, but I paid for my fair share of the hotel and any other meals (am brunch, lunch the day before) and drinks I had.

I would plan specifically to pay for your fair share, and if they surprise you by paying for some things (or everything), then that is just icing on the cake.

Post # 5
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573 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: April 2010

There isn’t a rule about who pays. You should each be prepared to pay your way, until/unless you’re told otherwise.

If you wear something that designates you are a bride-to-be, you’ll be likely to get free drinks.

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