- 5 years ago
- Wedding: June 2013
So…here’s the situation.
My future hubby, Mr. KBear, is an identical twin. Which is confusing, but fun. However, they are both getting married next year. Mr. BearK and his fiancee got engaged a year ago and we got engaged about 9 months later… Our wedding is first (my mother is incredibly ill) but only be a few months. Everyone is fine with this, so that’s not the issue.
The issue is becoming now we’ve planned a joint bachelor/bachelorette party with all four of us. Which, is going to be awesome. But, we have very different ideas for the night and I’m struggling to find a middle ground. We’re doing it in a major city and I’m wanting to do dressy and she’s more casual. Has anyone done a joint bachelorette party? How did you make it work?
For this record, this is not something I’m complaining about or wanting to change. I’m excited and think it’ll rock; I just want to make sure that I find a way to make things even and fair without causing conflict 🙂