(Closed) Bachelorette guest list…

posted 8 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
505 posts
Busy bee
  • Wedding: October 2010

Like you, I really have no idea how all of this works.  From what I’ve read, the Maid/Matron of Honor plans it and is supposed to charge all of the people attending a small admission (like $10 or something).  That money goes toward the bride’s activities, drinks, etc for the night.  Or if you are staying in a hotel it would cover the cost of that.

(Someone please correct me if I’m wrong.)

So, since my Maid/Matron of Honor has the best of intentions yet is struggling financially I decided to invite more people so that a lot of it wouldn’t be on her head to pay for.  If I invited just my bridesmaids there would only be 4 of them and the per person cost would be higher.

In your situation, it’s your wedding so please do whatever you want!  I think your bridesmaids will appreciate that you thought of them and no one should be offended at all for not getting invited.  People will understand, especially if its your friends. 

Post # 4
7152 posts
Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: October 2010

It really just depends on what you want. My Bachelorette Party will include more than just my Bridesmaids, but not nearly as many people as my Main Shower (75). There are some friends that aren’t Bridesmaids that I want to share that time with too.

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