bachelorette hotel logistic concerns – what would you prefer

posted 2 years ago in Parties
  • poll: So what do you think?
    $75 and sharing a bed : (18 votes)
    56 %
    $125 and not sharing a bed : (11 votes)
    34 %
    Other : (3 votes)
    9 %
  • Post # 2
    484 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: November 2015

    anonybee0810:  Not to sound like a sheep, but it would probably depend on the other girls wanting to share, or sleep seperately.

    I wouldn’t want to be the only one having my own room with everyone else sharing and having a great time.

    Actually, come to think of it, I shared a bed with my FSIL for her Hen/Bachelorette party and that was fine. We were so exhausted and hopped up on booze to sleep properly anyway.

    Post # 3
    720 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: September 2014

    anonybee0810:  My girls and I shared beds at my bachelorette and I have offered my girls to stay in my room the night before the wedding in my bridal suite before the wedding which we’ll have to share again. It is saving everyone money that way. Not everyone stayed the night at the bachelorette and not everyone is staying in the suite before the wedding. I think it depends on how many people actually choose to stay the night. If it were me I’d love to share a room so that way everyone can be included and save money but thats just my opinion since weddings can be soooooo expensive! 

    Post # 4
    87 posts
    Worker bee

    If I knew who the girl was I wouldn’t mind sharing a bed but if I didn’t know who it was I would probably spring for my own room. 

    • This reply was modified 2 years, 2 months ago by  danakins16.
    Post # 5
    1258 posts
    Bumble bee

    If I’m at a bachelorette, I’m going to be drunk when I fall asleep. I don’t care who I sleep next to…lol. 

    Post # 6
    1928 posts
    Buzzing bee
    • Wedding: May 2013

    At this stage in my life, I’d pay the extra $50 to have my own bed.  When I was younger in my early 20s, I wouldn’t have minded sharing a bed to save the money!

    Honestly, I’d be more worried about 4 girls sharing one bathroom rather than sharing a bed though!

    Basically, I’d go with whatever the group wanted though.

    Post # 7
    4147 posts
    Honey bee
    • Wedding: October 2011

    I’d be happy to share a bed and save a bit of money that could go towards the night out.  But who will have to sleep on the pullout sofa?  I always think that person shouldn’t have to pay as much since they’re kind of getting the shaft of a potentially uncomfortable sleep on a sofabed, but that’s just me.

    Post # 8
    6455 posts
    Bee Keeper
    • Wedding: June 2013

    I would be willing to share a bed. Just out of curiosity- are there any other cheaper hotels in the area? Depending on how much money I’m spending on the rest of the party I might just decide to go home instead of paying $75 to share a bed.

    Also, since there is a pull out bed couldn’t you technically fit 5 people into a room? 

    Post # 9
    658 posts
    Busy bee
    • Wedding: February 2016

    I shared a bed at my now SIL’s bachelorette and it was fine – our night ended up with all of us coming back from a club and just sitting around in one of the rooms drinking champagne and giggling like idiots until dawn anyway so the beds hardly got used. 

    Post # 11
    224 posts
    Helper bee
    • Wedding: August 2015

    anonybee0810:  If I knew the other girls, I would share a bed. But I dunno — maybe I’m weird — but I wouldn’t want to share a bed with a stranger! LOL.

    I might prefer paying more, but ideally, would ask if we could go to a different hotel that everyone can afford if that’s the issue?

    Post # 12
    2697 posts
    Sugar bee
    • Wedding: March 2016 - Surfer's Beach, Grand Cayman

    It depends on the crowd I have been to some unpleasantly messy hotel sharing nights (girls puking in the bed, bringing guys into the room etc) and in those cases I was just wishing I had my own damn room. If it was people I knew were cool and I felt comfortable with I’d be fine sharing a bed, otherwise I’d want my own. 

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