Post # 1
Okay, I have a dilemma. My bachelorette party is next weekend. One of my friends rsvpedto the evite one of my bridesmaids set up and put +2 guests. At first I was kinda like whatever, but now that the bach. party is getting closer it kinda freaks me out. I don’t know the girls she’s bringing and I didn’t even invite all of MY girlfriends to my party, so why would I want people there that I don’t even know! I don’t know how to tell my friend I don’t want her bringing 2 guests with her, but I also don’t want to sound rude or hurt my friends feelings. Any advice on how to handle this??
Post # 3
I think that’s EXTREMELY strange and presumtious of your friend to assume it’s okay to bring two of HER friends to YOUR bachelorette party. And what about costs? Are these two random people chipping in for their own way? And who wants to attend their own bachelorette party with STRANGERS?? I would maybe talk to your bridesmaid that sent up the event and have HER tell your friend that the invite did not include guests and was only meant for the specific people invited and that she cannot bring two guests. Good luck!
Post # 4
Yea, I thought it was strange and all of my girlfriends thought it was strange so I had my bridesmaid who set up this whole party send her an email and tell her the party is for close friends/family, etc. I just hope my friend isn’t upset with me, it was just too strange for me to deal with!