Post # 1
So my MOH wants to throw me a bachelorette party. I am fine with this but have a few concerns. I am not the typical party hard person which she knows and was going to do a spa day for me instead. This is great I think it would be nice since she and another one of my bridesmaid are under the age of 21. My concern is that none of my bridal party members really have the money to spend on my bachelorette party, my MOH included (her mom would give her the moeny). I don’t want to force this on anyone and I also think it might be akward. My bridal party consists of my cousin(MOH), my FSIL, and 2 good friends from when I was a kid that I grew up with. They are all different and have only met once.
I am wondering if I should tell her I don’t really need one and that the bridal shower she is hosting is enough. Any advice?
Post # 2
Could you do a mini spa weekend at someone’s house? Get nail polish, mud masks, etc, and do it at home? That way, everyone could participate and bring a food or drink item (think yummy appetizers, sinfully decadent desserts, champagne punches, etc). This would minimize costs and still let you have a spa retreat with your girls.
Post # 3
what about just having a sleepover at one of the girls houses? (even better if someone has a vacation house or you could chip in to rent a room at a hotel – check groupon for good deals!)
spa is fun and nice but it can get expensive… and usually you aren’t even all together since treatments are solo.
another less expensive option can be just a nice dinner out… the spa will likely be about $100/pp per treatment and that could pay for a really nice dinner out