Bachelorette party and shower anyone?

posted 3 years ago in July 2014
Post # 3
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Worker bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

@REchick:  my MOH is planning both. i have dates set in april and june. 

Post # 4
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

My aunt is hosting a shower for me in June (I will be in my hometown for a friend’s wedding, so it was a convenient time to do it). No idea when a bachelorette will happen, but a friend who lives near me is organizing it with one of my bridesmaids.

I don’t think it necessarily has to be FMIL who throws you a shower… I think usually it’s a bridesmaid or female relative. I didn’t think I would be having one at first, so you never know if someone will 

Post # 5
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

I’m almost positive my mom and my FMIL are doing the shower. Mostly my mom though. 

My MOH is doing my bachelorette and it’s in May. I’m excited. 🙂

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Busy bee
  • Wedding: May 2013

Your wedding party should be planning it 

Post # 7
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Newbee

This is the most stressful part for me right now! I have one shower planned by my amazing MOC and family friend, but my maids have been talking about planning a shower and a bachelorette for months with no decisions being made. It’s been extremely difficult for me to stay out of it (and some would say that I’m failing miserably at that).

So, to answer your question: one shower planned for May 3rd; one kind of planned for April 26th; and no bachelorette in sight.

Post # 8
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Helper bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

My shower is being planned by my sister and mother I think. they wont tell me anything other than it will be May 18. I don’t think i’m doing a bachlorette party. it’s not really my thing. Ive never heard that your FMIL is supposed to do the shower i just thought it was a relative or close friend

Post # 9
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Blushing bee
  • Wedding: July 2014

My shower is on May 25th, and bachelorette party is June 28th-30th (vegas)

Me and my mom planned the shower, me and MOH planned the BH party

Post # 11
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Blushing bee

@REchick:  I know that my bridesmaids are planning something (one of them is terrible at keeping secrets, lol, and while she certainly didn’t give anything away, she let me know there’s something in the works).  I don’t have any idea of when or where it will be though, and no one has asked me for available dates yet.

I also think there is a shower in the works, as my mom asked me recently where I registered, and then I noticed two items have been purchased off of our registry.  Again, I have no idea when or where that will be either.

Post # 12
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Sugar bee
  • Wedding: July 2014 - Prague

We have no bridal party, but I’ll probably have a hen night once my friends get into town. My FI isn’t having a bachelor party and no one is hosting a shower for me.

Post # 13
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Newbee

My shower is either My 24th or 25th planned by my mom and sis. As for bachelorette– I have no idea.  I know my sister is in charge which makes me feel better because some of my friends can be a bit much and I’m thinking of something more along the lines of wine tasting or a spa rather than clubbing all night. 

Post # 15
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Helper bee

I just found out that my BMs have planned a shower for me for June 20th. Exciting!

They are also planning a girls shopping weekend to the outlet mall/bachelorette party, but I don’t know the dates for that yet.

Post # 16
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Newbee

@distressddamsel:  Yesss!! that sounds great!  I am hoping to do something along the same lines.  There are small vineyards not too far from me, so it seems doable 🙂

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