- 9 years ago
Since my FI & I got engaged, a lot of friends & cousins have been asking when & where the bachelorette party will be. We’ll be going away for the weekend a couple months before the wedding and when asked, I told my MOH I’d only like to have the bridesmaids & a few other close girlfriends (from high school) in attendance. How do I tell everyone else without making them feel excluded? When anyone mentions anything about it, sometimes people chime in that they can’t wait and assume that they’re going. I don’t want to hurt anyone’s feelings, especially since they’ll probably hear about it from other people, but I wanted to keep a small group for a trip like that. Any advice? Thanks!