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Hi Bees!

I need your advice, my bridal party is made up of dramatically different people and thats making my Bachelorette location choice really tough.

Me, and 3 of my bridesmaids really would love to have a Vegas party, get dressed up in cocktail dresses and go out on the town...However, i havent asked them, but I really dont think that the other 2 of my bridesmaids would like that situation at all. One is my older sister who is married with children and has never even been to a bar in her life, and the other is my brothers girlfriend who is a hippie, and i dont think i could get her to wear makeup, much less put on a cocktail dress and go to a club, thats not her style.

So what do i do? Can I have a bachelorette party the way i want and that will be the funnest thing, but 2 of my bridesmaids wont come and I would feel bad leaving them out...or should I have a way less fun bachelorette party just at a restaraunt downtown, dinner & Drinks to include everyone? Not sure if this matters, but my older sister is throwing my bridal shower and that will incude everyone..

There's no rule about having to wear makeup in vegas, right?

I would say do Vegas, if that's what you want. Your compromise could be having a bach dinner prior to the evening festivities. That way if the two other women don't want to go  out clubbing, they have an option to bow out but still be involved.

Run it past your sister, you may be surprised.

@mcglalala: thats actually a great idea, i never thought of that!

And I guess i should ask them, Ive just been unsuccessful in convincing my sister to go to a bar with me in the past, shes more of a motherly figure helping me organize my life and sending me home with cookies, than a friend. But who knows right, maybe she'd like it if she didnt feel like she would have to come to a club with us if she came...My brothers girlfriend loves to go to bars, and drinking with friends, but she probably wouldnt come to a club, even her and my sister are way different from each other except they both dont like clubs or cocktail dresses lol..