(Closed) Bachelorette Party Guests

posted 10 years ago in Parties
Post # 3
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179 posts
Blushing bee
  • Wedding: August 2008

Yes – but… Just make it clear to her that these girls aren’t on the wedding guest list.  And ask that she clears it with this group.  If your only concern is it will put you in an awkward position – just put it back on her.  Maybe she didn’t think it through all the way and doesn’t get it.

Post # 4
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1061 posts
Bumble bee
  • Wedding: September 2008

that’s a little weird to me — it makes it seem like she’s doing this not as a bachelorette party, but as an excuse to party in vegas with her friends. just my take on the situation.

i asked my moh to refrain from inviting people to my girls weekend until i found out the exact guest list, to avoid having feelings hurt if people got an invite to the weekend but not to the wedding. i just think it’s a little strange to be invited to a wedding-related event like a bachelorette party or shower but not to the actual wedding.

there’s nothing you can really do about it now since these girls are already invited to vegas, but i would just give her the names of all the girls who you want to be there and try to make the best of it! but i agree with gaudior — make sure that she’s upfront with the girls who aren’t invited to the wedding.

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