Bachelorette party invitees?

posted 2 years ago in Parties
Post # 2
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Busy Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

anneh1990:  You don’t need to invite anyone you don’t want to. In my mind anyway, the party is for you and your friends. You can avoid the problem (of not inviting some in-laws) by simply not talking about the bachelorette party at all in front of people you’re not inviting.

To be honest I’m surprised you’re inviting your mother, but if she knows a lot of your friends it might be ok. But the same doesn’t apply to your FMIL.

I’ve never gone to an in-law’s bachelorette and I had no in-laws at mine.

Post # 3
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Honey Beekeeper
  • Wedding: November 1999

anneh1990:  I don’t know anyone who  invited either Mom to her bachelorette, but your FMIL is likely to have hurt feelings if your Mom is invited and she is not.

Can you not have a couple of drinks and a nice dinner with the Moms and have your Mom lead the way when it’s time for the mothers to leave?

You and your friends can then ramp up the party.

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